Where did you get this nonsense? you don't even know the intricate details (aside from what I've disclosed here) to even make a correct assessment of my dating experiences. your bias, not to mention ignorance of my personal situation aside from what I've told you have concluded your thoughts on the subject, but I'm telling you, you're incorrect.
By reading what you write, so we can learn about you.
There are things that I've dealt with when it comes to the personality of some of these women. For example one woman has a habit of smoking weed I'm not fond of and have a tendency to make up things because she had memory problems due to her "chronic" marijuana use. That is just one example of problems I've encountered.
So don't date her!
If she bores you, stay home!
Yes. But there is a difference between having emotional issues and bringing them along in a new situation. If I have some mental instability it is not rational to bring that in a new situation.
It's good to be open with folks.
Openess is clarity is honesty.
And the flaws in us become a patina on our humanity.
I can listen to a person's problems all day in fact that is what I do! But when it comes to new situations like dating it is unhealthy and actually a red flag, that a person upon meeting a new individual still harbors over the last person.
The last person is a phrase, sentence or chapter in their life and is a part of them.
If you love people you will take interest in every part of them.
Just by reading what you write.
If your introductions about yourself are anything like your posts then most smart women will be sneaking looks at their fit-bits.
Wow, just wow. So let me get this straight. If I have standards and prefer a woman to come into a dating situation with a stable emotional and mental health and who displays attractive personal qualities that are compatible to mine I am somehow a control freak? We all have standards I'm just displaying mine. If I think it's unhealthy for a woman to dwell on her past while getting to know me I'm somehow in the wrong? What world are you living in?
If you read that para again to yourself you might just get an idea about just how demanding you are.
You don't want to date a real kicking screaming vibrant woman with feelings. You need one of those programmable IT dolls to sit opposite you, and then she'll be everything that you wanted. But you'll be bored in one minute, I reckon.
[QUTE]Either I'm tired or what because I did not get this.....[/QUOTE]
No, you didn't.
That was a test to discover just how much you are interested in other people.
And you don't get 'em, do you?
There is no ideal perfect partner....
If I were to describe the personality trait best compatible to mine its:
1) Compassionate
2) Loyal
3) Intelligent (Academic and street wise)
4) Worldly
5) Fun (or funny)
6) Understanding
What!!! ??
You want what?? !!
You've already shown us that your compassion, understanding and sense of fun are poor but she has to have all that?
And I personally guess that if this date was very intelligent and highly qualified that you'd feel a bit niggled?
You don't even know me and quite frankly your assessment is quite disrespectful.
I think that
@Sunstone is a very intelligent bloke, mate, but he and I don't talk that much....... but neither he nor I would wish to hurt you.
We just know that short sharp shocks of truth are not only remembered, but they can be very very helpful in the long run... is all.