A friend's husband passed away recently. It brought to mind an issue I've wondered about in the past: what's the best way for an atheist to give condolences to a religious person who's lost someone close to them?
It seems awkward when a string of people say to a bereaved person "your family is in my thoughts and prayers", and then someone comes along and just says "your family is in my thoughts." How do you handle it?
I feel like a lot of the "standard" things that people say to people who have just lost a loved one are rooted in religion.
... or maybe I'm looking at this in the wrong way: yeah, it's a bit difficult to give a quick response that I don't have to put much thought into, but maybe putting thought into how I console a grieving person is a good thing.
It seems awkward when a string of people say to a bereaved person "your family is in my thoughts and prayers", and then someone comes along and just says "your family is in my thoughts." How do you handle it?
I feel like a lot of the "standard" things that people say to people who have just lost a loved one are rooted in religion.
... or maybe I'm looking at this in the wrong way: yeah, it's a bit difficult to give a quick response that I don't have to put much thought into, but maybe putting thought into how I console a grieving person is a good thing.