Female Orgasm

[The Hammer]

The female orgasm may have evolved as a mate-selection tool, according to new research

The female Orgasm may serve as a mate selection tool, in women's inventory, to establish whether or not to stay with a partner short/long term.

 

[exchemist]

The female orgasm may have evolved as a mate-selection tool, according to new research

The female Orgasm may serve as a mate selection tool, in women's inventory, to establish whether or not to stay with a partner short/long term.

Do you have a source for this?

 

[We Never Know]

Do you have a source for this?

The post includes a link.

 

[The Hammer]

Do you have a source for this?

There's a link.

 

[Estro Felino]

I think males are much more visual than us.
I think we focus more on the inwardness of a male. And other senses do matter, like olfaction, taste, etc...
For some of us...male shyness can be a turn-on.
For others, a turnoff. But it mostly depends on what the male is like, on the inside.

 

[We Never Know]

I think males are much more visual than us.
I think we focus more on the inwardness of a male. And other senses do matter, like olfaction, taste, etc...
For some of us...male shyness can be a turn-on.
For others, a turnoff. But it mostly depends on what the male is like, on the inside.

Why do females like bad boys?

 

[Estro Felino]

Why do females like bad boys?

You should ask them.
I do not.

 

[The Hammer]

I think males are much more visual than us.
I think we focus more on the inwardness of a male. And other senses do matter, like olfaction, taste, etc...
For some of us...male shyness can be a turn-on.
For others, a turnoff. But it mostly depends on what the male is like, on the inside.

Men are certainly more visual. What is also interesting is for a female to orgasm, they need to focus more on themselves and their body during sex, whereas for men they need to lose themselves in their head so to speak.

 

[We Never Know]

Men are certainly more visual. What is also interesting is for a female to orgasm, they need to focus more on themselves and their body during sex, whereas for men they need to lose themselves in their head so to speak.

"Men are certainly more visual"

In my opinion yes and no.

Men tend to look at the outside while women tend look at the inside.
In many cases anyway.

 

[The Hammer]

"Men are certainly more visual"

In my opinion yes and no.

Men tend to look at the outside while women tend look at the inside.
In many cases anyway.

Women can be just as visually driven imo.

 

[exchemist]

There's a link.

Ah so there is, thanks. (For some reason my ancient iPad did not highlight it clearly. Now that I'm on the laptop I can see it.)

It's a rather curious study. It has always seemed to me that, since the female orgasm works exactly like the male one (based on my own observation and feedback from girls I have slept with), and bearing in mind that male bodies are - biologically - adaptations of the female body, it is odd to suggest that the female orgasm mechanism has somehow back-evolved to be present in the female. It seems more probable that it the mechanism was present in the female all along and was co-opted for ejaculation of sperm in the male.

But I don't pretend to be a biologist.

 

[exchemist]

The post includes a link.

Thanks, post 11 explains why I failed to see it before.

 

[Terrywoodenpic]

Not good to overthink it. Just go with the flow.

 

[exchemist]

Not good to overthink it. Just go with the flow.

At my age, I'm at the stage of reflecting on past experiences and pondering the science of it all.

 

[MikeF]

Ah so there is, thanks. (For some reason my ancient iPad did not highlight it clearly. Now that I'm on the laptop I can see it.)

It's a rather curious study. It has always seemed to me that, since the female orgasm works exactly like the male one (based on my own observation and feedback from girls I have slept with), and bearing in mind that male bodies are - biologically - adaptations of the female body, it is odd to suggest that the female orgasm mechanism has somehow back-evolved to be present in the female. It seems more probable that it the mechanism was present in the female all along and was co-opted for ejaculation of sperm in the male.

But I don't pretend to be a biologist.

Since these mechanisms have presumably been inherited from a long line of progenitor species, perhaps they should figure out which species may have first exhibited orgasm and then see what role it has played throughout the evolutionary process. This focus on human orgasm seems a bit after-the-fact.

 

[exchemist]

Since these mechanisms have presumably been inherited from a long line of progenitor species, perhaps they should figure out which species may have first exhibited orgasm and then see what role it has played throughout the evolutionary process. This focus on human orgasm seems a bit after-the-fact.

That's rather how it seems to me. However, I can't imagine many researchers wanting to investigate the orgasm in, say, female primates. So we may never know....

 

[MikeF]

That's rather how it seems to me. However, I can't imagine many researchers wanting to investigate the orgasm in, say, female primates. So we may never know....

Going with the flow then.

 

[Firenze]

I think males are much more visual than us.
I think we focus more on the inwardness of a male. And other senses do matter, like olfaction, taste, etc...
For some of us...male shyness can be a turn-on.
For others, a turnoff. But it mostly depends on what the male is like, on the inside.

Actually it depends a lot on what the female is like, and what kind of love experiences she had as a child. Women will unconciously be attracted to the 'bad boy', or the abuser, if her home experience was abusive. Children will crave whatever kind of 'love' they grew up with - positive or negative.

 

[Sand Dancer]

Not good to overthink it. Just go with the flow.

I'm trying to make a pun about this, but it's too late for me to think.

 

[Vinayaka]

I'm trying to make a pun about this, but it's too late for me to think.

I know a joke about the 4 kinds of female orgasm.