Female Christians: Would you marry a convicted sex offender who is born again?

[Horrorble]

why wouldn't god take away that desire, if they were sincerely born again? why would god allow them very serious demons to lurk within? what's the point in being born again if these demons happen to be uncontrollable?
i don't know if it's true, but i've noticed these type of sex offenders say they don't want out of prison, because they can't stop, even though they said they wish they could.

Because Christian women simply won't know for sure that god has taken away their desire. Considering there is a big problem with child rape in Christian organisations, do you think it is sensible for a woman to put the children in her family at risk?

 

[lfa11]

I went and was dumped by an x g/f cause that hillsong Born again was handing out the bucket more than once, they had to donate out of your wage 10% and also was told if your not a christian then you are not a true believer, they also show places overseas where they pretend they donate to help out schools which the money is obvious its from the people that attend and everything payed for. they tried to put thet aniontment on me which i refused and was upset at that, she dumped me cause i said its a scam and its not even a real church as we was in a hall.
also she never looked after other people and was told cause i didnt haev money is reason why she really left,
this comes from a person that was religious in this born again and if i ever met another that went to that to be brainwashed then no way I would trust her, i would trust her more if just did good deeds without the need for money
oh and as well i gave and do give to poor people which im not rich and was told that could of been kept for us, so No way i would as i wouldnt trust them to start with with prior conviction and that sur ewouldnt help in joining that cult too

 

[kloth]

Is this a sly way of asking "how much faith to you really have?"

one thing you'll notice about me on these forums is that i don't beat around the bush. it's a forums, no need to do that.

Because Christian women simply won't know for sure that god has taken away their desire. Considering there is a big problem with child rape in Christian organisations, do you think it is sensible for a woman to put the children in her family at risk?

i wasn't asking about why christian women knowing if that desire is gone. but why wouldn't god take away that desire away? even if other people aren't sure if it is, and don't trust them, which i can understand.
unless god doesn't take away demons like that, even if the person is a sincere born again christian and truly wants this desire gone for good.

 

[Forgivenby grace]

I can see by these comments that many do not understand who is on a sex registry
People that have had no physical contact with a minor can end up on it. "Sexting" with someone, even when you don't know they are a minor can get you on the list. You don't have to rape a child.
There is such a thing as sex addiction , pornography addiction. God is not limited, he can deliver anyone from their addiction.

 

[Samantha Rinne]

Assuming he is sincerely a born again christian, and he has told you of his past after dating him for a while, and the relationship was going better than you'd ever had experienced with anyone or could dream of, and just before him proposing to you, that he did time for child rape and is on the registered sex offenders site.
Would you have kids with him if you say "yes"? how would you honestly feel about him being alone with your kids after a few years? or anyone's kids; like you friends or other relatives kids.

I never heard of this happening before, so i am just wondering what female Christians would do in a situation like this, with a hypothetical kinda answer if anything. I also like to ask tough questions at times.

I hate the term "born again." It sounds too much like an abuser saying "I've changed, come back." I'm not sure how much good it is to brag of your new changed life. Show, don't tell.

 

[Forgivenby grace]

Anyone who says they are reformed would be up front early in a relationship.
Again, remember the sex registry isn't just rapist. It can be online pornography
I know of a person with a pornography addiction brought on by depression, that was on an adult website where a minor was posing as an adult to get drug money and guess who is now on the registry even though no money was ever given and no physical contact, no pictures sent by the adult just the minor sent pictures
People in this group generally have under 20% recidivism

 

[ChristineM]

Assuming he is sincerely a born again christian, and he has told you of his past after dating him for a while, and the relationship was going better than you'd ever had experienced with anyone or could dream of, and just before him proposing to you, that he did time for child rape and is on the registered sex offenders site.
Would you have kids with him if you say "yes"? how would you honestly feel about him being alone with your kids after a few years? or anyone's kids; like you friends or other relatives kids.

I never heard of this happening before, so i am just wondering what female Christians would do in a situation like this, with a hypothetical kinda answer if anything. I also like to ask tough questions at times.

Not christian but absolutely not, i am not sure which would be worse.