J Bryson
Well-Known Member
This seems like an appropriate topic to start on Mothers' Day.
When I was growing up, the religious right was just getting warmed up to the idea of "family values". What this was generally meant to indicate seemed to have something to do with prayer in schools, no nudity or swearing in art and literature, and the overturning of Roe v. Wade. The family next door was huge on this concept, and included being anti-school busing into the mix.
My family was comfortably agnostic. My parents and I did not believe in school prayer (at least the kind led by the teacher), had an open attitude towards nudity and swearing within certain limits, and were entirely pro-choice. Also, I took the bus across town to go to an integrated school. All of these beliefs stemmed from long and hard thought and contemplation. They were strongly held values, and we considered them to be moral.
This was my family. These were our values. And yet somehow the concept of family values, or moral values, has been taken over by a single set of people who proclaim them from the highest steps. It's only recently that progressives have managed to regain some ground. To this day, when one thinks of family values, the James Dobsons and Pat Robertsons of this world come to mind before any secular or even non-Christian figure.
Why is this? And how are the beliefs of others generally considered to be "moral values" while my moral values are not?
When I was growing up, the religious right was just getting warmed up to the idea of "family values". What this was generally meant to indicate seemed to have something to do with prayer in schools, no nudity or swearing in art and literature, and the overturning of Roe v. Wade. The family next door was huge on this concept, and included being anti-school busing into the mix.
My family was comfortably agnostic. My parents and I did not believe in school prayer (at least the kind led by the teacher), had an open attitude towards nudity and swearing within certain limits, and were entirely pro-choice. Also, I took the bus across town to go to an integrated school. All of these beliefs stemmed from long and hard thought and contemplation. They were strongly held values, and we considered them to be moral.
This was my family. These were our values. And yet somehow the concept of family values, or moral values, has been taken over by a single set of people who proclaim them from the highest steps. It's only recently that progressives have managed to regain some ground. To this day, when one thinks of family values, the James Dobsons and Pat Robertsons of this world come to mind before any secular or even non-Christian figure.
Why is this? And how are the beliefs of others generally considered to be "moral values" while my moral values are not?