Epic Beard Man
Bearded Philosopher
If things aren't working, is it really weak to acknowledge this and consider things aren't working out that well?
It is weak to wish another person well after they were deceitful in the case of the man in the video. If a woman is unhappy she ought to state why she is unhappy. If she is willing to work it out and the man is going to work on the things she has grievances about then its a good thing because both parties are trying to salvage a relationship. The weakness comes in is where a man just okay's a woman's actions especially if she is in the wrong. If she cheats she is wrong and her unhappiness is not a justification for infidelity. Hence is why I said that in the beginning people ought to declare their likes and dislikes so there is an understanding between the parties. None of us have developed telekinesis.
Is it strength to lack the courage to vocalize such concerns and not consider breaking up to find fulfillment with someone else? People fall in love, but they also can fall out of love and drift apart for various reasons.
I think it takes strength when a person's emotions have run out and the relationship has ran its course to face the lover whose feelings have no ran out and who believe the relationship has not ran its course. It takes strength for a lover to continue to love someone when their significant other suffers a disability yet, continue to stay in that relationship because they see that person as the same as in the beginning. It takes courage and strength to work on a relationship and work through the emotional trials and tribulations of life. Anyone can leave a relationship for bogus reasons. Anyone can string another along for selfish purposes, but it takes a real man or woman to be a stand up person and do right by others.
I also don't think you truly believe the "don't trust women" post you made. You can probably do a quick inventory and think of at least a few women you trust.
I don't even trust some of the women in my own family. I've been around some careless deceitful women in my life. In another thread I mentioned a co-worker of mine who caught his wife sexting another co-worker. He confronted the guy although threatened him, but the result was my buddy was terminated. Terminated for antagonizing the guy who was pushing on his wife similar to the man in the video. Instead of his wife correcting the wrong she allowed it to persist like this woman in the video. Some women are just weird and don't know what they want and go through men like clothes without any regard for the person's feelings. Women don't hold other women accountable and so the problem of the sexes persist.
This is why incels exist, and MGTOW exist because there are women are antagonists in the guise of feminism that try and make women above reproach. I've seen women do wrong but make themselves out as the victim it is a total mind game that a lot of women play. I certainly think this is a first world issue where we as a society are too pampered and forget the value of friendship and respect for each other.