Geoff-Allen
Resident megalomaniac
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I made this search after having trouble accessing one of my favourite sites ...
Anyway Here are a few ways in which people torture themselves {and hopefully how to stop!} -
When we were young, we learned to internalize the messages that behaviors of others around us seemed to communicate. These messages eventually cemented themselves as rules and dogmas that we mindlessly follow later on in life. They torture our sense of well-being and impede our attempts to get our adult needs met. We unconsciously become tyrants to ourselves. We cause the stress and tension that break down our bodies. We separate ourselves from reality. We become isolated from others.
The tyrant works through the inner voices in our heads. He drives us to act counter to our developing values and perception of reality.
Below are the ways of which these voices manifest themselves, acting as road blocks in different aspects of our lives. If these words came from somebody we knew, we’d stay away from that person as far as possible. Yet these voices are trying to protect us, albeit from dangers that no longer exist. They were coded into our emotional responses when we were very young. If we never fully put those perceptions to the test, those voices haunt us.
Read the full-list of ten here -
10 Tyrannies That We Torture Ourselves With
Looks a great site from first impressions IMHO.
Wishing you all the best!
I made this search after having trouble accessing one of my favourite sites ...
Anyway Here are a few ways in which people torture themselves {and hopefully how to stop!} -
When we were young, we learned to internalize the messages that behaviors of others around us seemed to communicate. These messages eventually cemented themselves as rules and dogmas that we mindlessly follow later on in life. They torture our sense of well-being and impede our attempts to get our adult needs met. We unconsciously become tyrants to ourselves. We cause the stress and tension that break down our bodies. We separate ourselves from reality. We become isolated from others.
The tyrant works through the inner voices in our heads. He drives us to act counter to our developing values and perception of reality.
Below are the ways of which these voices manifest themselves, acting as road blocks in different aspects of our lives. If these words came from somebody we knew, we’d stay away from that person as far as possible. Yet these voices are trying to protect us, albeit from dangers that no longer exist. They were coded into our emotional responses when we were very young. If we never fully put those perceptions to the test, those voices haunt us.
Read the full-list of ten here -
10 Tyrannies That We Torture Ourselves With
Looks a great site from first impressions IMHO.
Wishing you all the best!