If you follow his words then your actions will ultimately reflect the words. When the Bible speaks of cursing his enemies, It isn't in the sense that we would hear cursing today, there was no use of childish names, He simply called them what they were...Hissy fit? sounds like you need to go back and read then explain better why you make these claims.......
I'm sorry for assuming christians would be familiar with their own NT. Here:
Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for you are like white-washed tombs, which outwardly appear beautiful, but within they are full of dead men"s bones and all uncleanness (Matthew 23:27).
Woe unto you! for you are like graves which are not seen, and men walk over them without knowing it (Luke 11:44).
Woe to you! for you build the tombs of the prophets whom your fathers killed. So you are witnesses and consent to the deeds of your fathers; for they killed them, and you build their tombs (Luke 11:47-48).
Jesus is criticized by the Pharisees for not washing his hands before eating. He defends himself by attacking them for not killing disobedient children according to the commandment:
“He that curseth father or mother, let him die the death.” Matthew 15:4-7
14And if any one will not receive you or listen to your words, shake off the dust from your feet as you leave that house or town.
15Truly, I say to you, it shall be more tolerable on the day of judgment for the land of Sodom and Gomorrah than for that town. (Matt. 10:14-15)
Called them what they were? So if you think your right about someone's character feel free to insult them. Great moral message. Anyway, feel free to point out how jesus showed love toward his enemies in any of those passages.