egroen
Member
For those of you in marriages and serious relationships, does your mate possess many of the same charecteristics (physical and/or emotional) as your mother/father?
Though my husband looks nothing like my father (swarthy iranian vs. pale swede), they do share many charecteristics: Gentle, open-minded, introspective, empathetic, intelligent and slow to judge or anger.
I think everyone grows up with a certain set of values derived from their parents and it is only natural to look for those similar values in a mate... but are you aware of it? I never was.
For those with kids of dating or marrying age: Are you disappointed if your child's love is very different from the type of person you are?
-Erin
Though my husband looks nothing like my father (swarthy iranian vs. pale swede), they do share many charecteristics: Gentle, open-minded, introspective, empathetic, intelligent and slow to judge or anger.
I think everyone grows up with a certain set of values derived from their parents and it is only natural to look for those similar values in a mate... but are you aware of it? I never was.
For those with kids of dating or marrying age: Are you disappointed if your child's love is very different from the type of person you are?
-Erin