Lightkeeper
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What would you tell a loved one, a friend or a family member, if they came out to you? Keep in mind you will impact them with your reactions and they are taking a big risk in telling you they are gay.
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Lightkeeper said:What would you tell a loved one, a friend or a family member, if they came out to you? Keep in mind you will impact them with your reactions and they are taking a big risk in telling you they are gay.
Awww, that's exactly what I was gonna say lol.Maize said:I'd give them a big hug and say, "ME TOO!"
It really is!! And it takes such a toll on you - emotionally and physically. It really is like a huge weight to have to carry around. I only managed to keep it from my immediate family for around 4 months, and that was hard enough. Mind you, I think the fact that I was (and am), head over heels in love, made the telling a lot easier. It wasn't an "I'm gay, and I'm miserable" speech, so much as an "I'm gay and I'm the happiest I've ever been" speech. I don't know how people stay in the closet for years, or even their entire lives...I think I'd literally kill myself. It's not healthy to feel you have to conceal a major part of your life, from the people you're closest to. And for me, it was an impossible thing to do...no matter what I thought their reactions might be. Each time I came out to someone new, I was terrified of how they would react, absolutely convinced it would mean doom for the relationship. Only one person has lived up to that fear though. These days, (close to 2 years later), telling people is not such a big deal. It comes up in conversation sooner or later, and I would rather be honest than lie about a part of who I am.Deut. 32.8 said:- concealment is such a waste.
Oh please...if I took everything that was said to me seriously (or had everything I've ever said taken seriously), I'd have sexual harassment suits up to my eyeballs. Is it PC to perv? Doubt it. Will it stop people doing it if you sue them? Nope. There's a line, and we know where it is and not to cross it, but if we guarded every single thing we said in case it could be construed as sexual harassment, then it would be a very boring place.Mr_Spinkles said:"and now the guys even point out hot chicks for me to perv on lol."
To think in this day and age, sexual harassment in the workplace continues...
Maize said:I'd give them a big hug and say, "ME TOO!"
Oh lord, that's funny!"Now I can buy him dresses!" No mum. Different thing.
Oh my god that's awful! I can't even imagine what that would be like. He's lucky to have a friend like to to lean on.And last Sunday at church there was an anti-gay marriage petition going around and his mom signed it and there was fighting
Hiding it away is damn silly. You are who you are, so come out!
It's like just because you come out and they say they accept you for who you are..