Pish posh.....a convenient presumption that such a mistake is the consequence.
I could presume that you could sneeze while driving & kill someone.
It's not an argument against driving.
Guns are a tool designed to kill. All the target practice in the world is still designed to help you kill someone. You may not mean to kill someone when you pull the trigger, but that is the function of the gun. Cars are not really comparable in that way.
Interesting.
Self defense is not about being "comfortable" with killing an attacker.
It's about survival.
I've no desire to kill anyone, but if needed to survive, then I'd rather be alive.
At least I'll be able to face the discomfort of the consequences by avoiding death.
I disagree. Training yourself in self-defense (with a gun) is about becoming comfortable with killing an attacker. Purchasing a gun with no training leaves my situation very little improved. If I'm not comfortable with using it, I'm not going to pull it out, I'm going to get it taken away, miss, escalate a situation, etc. If I'm trained, then the point is to become comfortable with pulling that trigger. The emotional responses after the moment will come later.
That's the reason I don't care much for internet tough guys when it comes to guns. I respect the people trained for crisis situations - and even they screw up - and the people who are realistic about it, but not the braggarts.
When I stated "associations," it was in the professional sense. Working with a large number of parolees, it seems quite possible that you might run into them in the community. I know my dad was always pretty cognizant of that fact.
It's a pretty small number, overall. And maybe once a month I see someone at Walmart or Walgreens. Depends on what part of town I'm in and when.
I wasn't SURPRISED by the number. I was merely mentioning that CONSIDERING the large number of criminals/parolees/ex convicts in the general public (verified by your own caseload), that's all the more reason to take reasonable steps to protect ourselves.
My caseload- which is typically about 25 until the state cut our funding - isn't that large, which is what I was trying to express. Additionally, the only way you're in danger from most of the clients I see is if you're selling drugs, buying drugs, or are dating them. Not all, but most. And most of the rest you're in more danger on the road than you are at home or in the store. DUIs appear to be a hard habit to break.
This is of course just a general average. Your response to want a firearm is fine, but I don't feel any thing of the sort - which is also fine - but neither are more reasonable than the other.
Since having a gun has been a DIRECT (and beautifully instantaneous) deterrent to violent crime for three members of my family, I consider responsible gun ownership to fall within the category of "reasonable steps to protect" myself and my family.
More power to you.
My youngest son is on parole. He had no prior criminal record, but he was with a group when a fight broke out in front of a club. He wasn't involved in the fight, but when the cops showed up, everyone ran in opposite directions. He was caught and charged with evading a police officer. He's now on parole and if he doesn't violate his parole, his record will be cleared. He's got about two months to go and I think he's learned his lesson - in fact, the whole ordeal scared him absolutely to death (and good - because he was hanging out with a pretty rough crowd and at least for the past 10 months his behavior has been curtailed!).
But if he continues to hang out with the same bunch, doing the same things, he's likely to end up with a criminal record - and he will deserve it. My association with him may in the future be limited, depending on if he continues to rack up a criminal record and what those future offenses may be - and what his friends' criminal activities and criminal records may be.
Ah, the realities of life...
He's getting parole written off his record? I assume he did prison time if you're talking about parole and not probation, correct? That's quite unusual, and I'm curious to know what kind of program they have to wipe off those sort of convictions. We have probation that gets you conditional discharge, and your official record wiped - although I don't think it ever goes off the county clerk records honestly - but nothing that removes your prison sentences.
The only way to expunge or seal records here is for some very specific offenses - prostitution is one - with no violent history and the like and that takes a good amount of time.