VoidCat
Pronouns: he/him/they/them
As for does and don'ts: Take into consideration the differences in the person's disability. If they have sensory processing issues,there body language,do they have issues with their body etc...Do not treat them as if they are dangerous or have a disease.Treat them as who they are and try to understand them.Most of all listen to them in whatever form they communicate with you.And, in person, are there do's and don'ts for neurotypical folks when they deal with people with autism.