I'll add some important history about Iran vs USA animosity....
- In 1953 the CIA staged a coup to remove a democratically
elected leader of Iran, in order to install the Shah.
Yes, this is true. It was part of the overall US policy of containment with the intention of encircling the Soviet Union, keeping them bottled up, and supposedly acting to prevent what they believed to be "Soviet Expansionism." The Shah was one of many tinpot puppet dictators set up at the behest of the US ruling class - all justified by the overall policy of anti-Soviet containment, from South Vietnam to Chile to Cuba and all across the globe.
For them, it was a real big deal. For us, Iran was just another far-flung country that most Americans couldn't find on a map (or they might get it mixed up with Iraq, which is a common mistake).
- Ameristan attacked Iran by proxy, using Iraq in their war.
We supplied Iraq with military assistance, which included
WMDs, eg, biological & chemical weapons. Nearly 1M
Iranians died as a result of our proxy war.
And during that time, the US government traded arms for hostages with Iran.
I don't know if I would consider the Iran-Iraq war to be a proxy war, unless you're saying that Saddam Hussein was a US puppet. Sure, the US was angry with Iran, and it was a matter of convenience for us to send aid to the regime which just happened to be fighting them at the time. However, Reagan's administration was more focused on the Soviet Union, supporting the Contras, and dealing with more significant threats to US security, such as Grenada. He also sent aid to the Afghan guerillas who were fighting the Soviet occupation of Afghanistan, and they would also later become a serious problem for us.
But strictly speaking, if your assessment here is correct, then our own government should have gone to war directly with Iran, without using a proxy. I think that attacking our embassy and holding our people hostage for more than a year would present a valid casus belli for war. The public surely would have supported it at the time, as a war fever had generated quite a bit of momentum. If we had used nuclear weapons against Iran at the time, the American public would have cheered wildly. That's what Iran had awakened in America.
- During that war, the US Navy shot down Iran Air 655 over
Iranian waters, killing all 290 people in that Airbus A300.
We gave them some coin, but never formally apologized.
I think the government said it was an accident. Unless you're alleging it was a deliberate act, I don't see how it would be relevant here.
Interestingly, our "proxy" at the time attacked the USS Stark in the Persian Gulf. That was supposedly an accident, too.
Iran has good reason to see us as the enemy. We've made
it clear that without nuclear weapons, they face a powerful
existential threat....from us, Israel, & Saudi Arabia.
I'm not arguing that Iran
doesn't have good reason to see us as the enemy. I agree with that they do - and not just for the reasons you've cited. In fact, there are a lot of countries around the world which have reason to see us as the enemy, which is why we have such a large, global military force and a bunch of warmongers in power. For much of my life, I've heard our leaders talk endlessly about all the dangerous threats all over the world, which whips the masses up into a frenzy and has been a major driver in US foreign policy since WW2.
The thing is, though, if Iran sees us as the enemy, then why has neither country declared war?