Quiddity
UndertheInfluenceofGiants
As to not derail another thread:
These are very interesting statements Sharon. If there is anyone I know that lives by this, I would immediately think of my mother in law. Having a great relationship with my wife's parents I get quite involved with family matters (often, not by choice).
We have a saying in Spanish that goes "Es mejor ser feliz, que tener la razon". Translation: It's better to be happy then to be right.
She holds a similar view with regard to unity. I gotta tell you that I struggled with this concept for years. I absolutely LOVED the unity she brought to the family and still do.
But...
It's caused immense amount of damage to the family. I'm sure this isn't what you mean or even what you would like but I can tell you from my personal experience (and perhaps you've experienced something similar) that if she would have attached herself to a view point, it would have prevented so many future problems.
I agree with you that unity is crucial and all attempts/avenues should be exhausted, but prolonging it for the sake of unity can also cause damage to families, communities, countries, etc.
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What do you think?
Is it better to be united then to be right? If so, why?
My thinking from this, in my admittedly Baha'i pov, is that it is better to be unified than to be right.
The real evil would be to be so attached to a point of view that the church split and people killed each other over it.
These are very interesting statements Sharon. If there is anyone I know that lives by this, I would immediately think of my mother in law. Having a great relationship with my wife's parents I get quite involved with family matters (often, not by choice).
We have a saying in Spanish that goes "Es mejor ser feliz, que tener la razon". Translation: It's better to be happy then to be right.
She holds a similar view with regard to unity. I gotta tell you that I struggled with this concept for years. I absolutely LOVED the unity she brought to the family and still do.
But...
It's caused immense amount of damage to the family. I'm sure this isn't what you mean or even what you would like but I can tell you from my personal experience (and perhaps you've experienced something similar) that if she would have attached herself to a view point, it would have prevented so many future problems.
I agree with you that unity is crucial and all attempts/avenues should be exhausted, but prolonging it for the sake of unity can also cause damage to families, communities, countries, etc.
.
What do you think?
Is it better to be united then to be right? If so, why?