This series of questions may influence forum-wide changes. Please answer them in as much detail as you can.
In this specific case, if moderation or interactions with a specific member or members are involved in your answer, please PM me the answer so that your answer doesn't violate Rule 2 or Rule 1, respectively.
- What brings you to RF?
Mainly a desire to discuss the nature, meaning and consequences of religion and religious belief.
This place is nearly unique in that regard. Far too much of the Internet is echo chambers that think nothing of insulting or just erasing any divergent thoughts that come their way. And truth be told, nearly nowhere we find comparable awareness of religious diversity.
- What, if anything, would discourage you from posting on RF or make you less likely to come here?
More emphasis on those darned DIRs! I don't think that they serve any useful purpose anymore. Internet "safe chambers" are about as self-defeating an idea as they come, particularly if there is any intent on discussing matters related to religion.
I also feel that it has become a bit too usual to insult people for the sake of insulting, for either belief or political reasons. That is rather immature and we could probably do with a lot less of that.
Unfortunately, that is hardly unique to RF. True respect has fallen out of favor, at least in the Internet.
- What, if anything, would you like to see done differently, whether in regard to forum sections, member interactions, or moderation/the rules?
The rules themselves are AFAIK only accessible now by way of the Forums section. That is a bit too hidden for my taste.
But mainly, there are the darned DIRs. I would like to see them phased out entirely, say in six months time. They are not worth their maintenance, and they end up reinforcing an assortment of vices, not least among those the very separation of creeds - which is unavoidably artificial and questionable.
We could probably benefit from adopting instead a more rigid system of responsibility for personal posts based on the Same Faith and One-on-one debates, where people are expected to carry the weight of the respect and accuracy of their posts unless threads are specifically marked (on the title or perhaps the OP) as some sort of NPL (No Person's Land).
That would be a traumatic change, particularly for the politically oriented content. But I feel that it is necessary. We have become too used to casual toxicity. It is mostly created outside of RF, but we nevertheless ought to take a stance towards it.
(Again, for answers related to the last question, please PM me the answer instead of posting it publicly, per Rule 2.)
- If you used to be more active but have become less active, what has caused this change?
I miss some of the old mainstays, and it has become harder to stand the amount of unashamed toxicity by some of those who remain.
Also, there has been an interesting lessening of actual fruitful discussion. Sometimes I feel like we keep repeating the same exercises of patience and repetition. And for some reason people are much more vicious and offensive these days.
That is actually a widespread phenomenon. I have seen it elsewhere, sometimes in much more vicious form. So much so that I am of half a mind to believing that there are actual organizations actively promoting that toxicity.
Interestingly, we also end up showing what appears at first glance to be undeserved amounts of patience towards mentally unbalanced people. I guess that dealing with insanity is part of the routine in these days of Brexit, Trump and Bolsonaro. That in turn leads to a need to be more direct and establish clearer parameters of discussion, if for no other reason to make it clear to others what we are and are not likely to take seriously (a very important achievement these days).
As an aside, I personally believe that we have globally been pushing the boundaries of etiquette and other protocols so much that I fully expect significant changes in the next ten years or so. People may well feel a clear need to state point blank that they have only limited time and patience for listening to statements that they have reason to believe will come unbalanced, unhinged or extremelly biased for some reason or another, and to signal to their interlocutors how best to mix directness, courtesy and detail in their interactions.
As things stand now, I feel that even parliamentary politicians that are elected specifically to discuss sensitive matters with others with comparable mandates and divergent stances are currently having a very hard time telling the difference between insults directed towards them and invitations for significant discussion and attempts at reaching some form of common ground and cooperation. It may well be that many politicians no longer even believe that their roles allow for such an activity. That is of course disgraceful and exceedingly dangerous, but transcends the scope of RF considerably.
Speak your mind as openly as you want and use PMs if need be (for the reasons clarified above). This survey is important. Your answers will be forwarded to the staff for consideration unless you explicitly request otherwise.
Thanks in advance.
You're welcome.