ManTimeForgot
Temporally Challenged
Playing devil's advocate (yes, I know; I have done that in every post responding so far ), I would have to ask why should I love life, my family and not cause harm to others? I'm not sure that morality has to come from a "higher being" ,if, you have in mind the biblical deity. I don't want to rape or murder. I also don't need threats from some imaginary realm of existence to be a good person.
I like compassion, virtue, love, and honesty. I like the rewarding and promising life that Humanism, secular or not, has to offer. But, I'm not sure I see the point to it . I abandoned Secular Humanism because I couldn't answer the big "why" questions in my mind. I'm exploring forms of religious Humanism and, so far, I find myself mostly attracted to Unitarian Universalism.
I realize that the questions may be impossible to answer. I realize that I may never get the answers that I want and I might not be satisfied. But if I knew, for certain, that this physical world was all that there was and there was nothing "out there" such as an external purpose that we were made for, then I will end it all. I'm hoping that there is a purpose out there and that we exist for a purpose. If I find philosophical naturalism convincing again, it's over for me. Seriously. I hope I never find it convincing and I'm going to keep searching for meaning. I'm happy about the possibility of meaning and purpose.
But as for "enjoying my life", why? To get answers, I have been playing devil's advocate in this thread. So far, I haven't gotten the answers but I'm very hopeful that at least my journey can prove fruitful and this thread may help me out a bit.
P.S. Where is Meow Mix? I thought she would have posted in this thread by now.
Life is uncertain. We know nothing (with the possible exception of tautologies) for certain (even then our conception of tautologies is probably flawed in some way). If you want a "definitive" answer to "What is the Meaning of Life" then you are not going to get one.
It takes a great deal of intellectual courage to be able to accept the fact that you are not guaranteed an answer to the "Big Questions." It takes a great deal of intellectual humility to be able to accept that you are not capable of answering every question or probing every mystery.
At the end of the day each of us do the same thing (some with greater scope than others) we choose to believe what ultimately allows us to be satisfied with whatever our current existence is. Some things simply must be accepted by fiat or you choose to remain uncertain. If you are unable to accept or handle uncertainty, then you garner a blind belief or faith in something.
MTF