Since you like to point out what "isn't a fact" so much, here we can point to the idea that you are completely missing the mark here. Did I once, even slightly, indicate that you were judging me on the basis of my atheism? On the basis of the fact that I don't believe in god(s)? No. I said you were judging me for being judgmental - which now I should amend, I suppose, given your attempts at clarification, to state that you were judging my behavior of passing judgment at the very least.
And here we come to an interesting question - why is it you think I am explicitly judging "the person" when I state that ongoing behaviors will see me reacting certain ways to a person? Is it not
always the behaviors that I was making a judgment over? The behavior comes from the person, but it is the behavior I judge in poor favor. If this were just about a person, sitting there, enacting zero behaviors (i.e. catatonic) then of course there is nothing for me to pass judgment on. It is only behavior that triggers such judgment. It is not like I saw the color of
@questfortruth's skin and passed judgment, or the color of his/her eyes. No... it is behavior, and behavior alone that has me stand up and call it out.
And so, will you at least admit to having judged my behavior for being one who agrees that
@questfortruth's behavior should be judged? You have a problem on your hands, because you have stated "I don't judge people like that" - and therefore are setting my judgments apart from your own - as if my judgments are somehow not within your wheelhouse, and yet you admit that judging behavior is something you accept, and perhaps even participate in. And obviously (so, so obviously) I am going to have to take up my beef's with anyone's behavior with the person themselves. Who else is there to take it to in most cases? I certainly can't take it to "The Human Behaviors Council" or some such, because it doesn't exist. I feel you just aren't very introspective, and you like to think of yourself as always following some "ideal" which sees you believing certain things about yourself that simply aren't true, or at the very least, gets you confused as to what your actual principles are, or how to articulate them.