Thank you. A beautiful story of my wife having a hidden desire to know what they were (boy - girl). A woman in her 80's (I think) was in the hospital, didn't know about it and said, "I dreamt that I was in Heaven with my husband, saw my mom and dad... and interestingly, saw 2 boys that looked like your eldest but a little older. (She had no idea we had lost two during pregnancy)I'm so sorry for your loss!
How old are yours now?
My oldest is from a previous relationship. My middle one is 8; I do like having them spaced decently apart in age. They can be fairly helpful with each other.
42, 40 and 38 - with 11 grandchildren 4 - 4 - 3 respectively.