Okay? Not sure what my takeaway is supposed to be from this sentence. It seems entirely pointless.
It's an indirect statement to myself saying there is irony in your reply, but I'll just smile regardless my initial feelings about it. Has to do with what you're saying not you as a person.
In my personal opinion, is has to do with younger people not giving a crap because they feel invulnerable to time. And elderly people also stop giving a crap when they realize how very limited their remaining time is.
That's basically the comment of the OP. Everything else, I'm not sure where you're getting at with the negativity.
What is this in reference to? What "gives a better reaction?" "It?" What is "it?"
It's an indirect example. I took the bold and caps off that statement (or one or the other) because it throws my eyes off and it's internet-yelling. I know you meant to emphasis but the point, tone, and emphasis makes it sound accusative.
Emphasis of what? Are you talking about my second use of the word "entirely" here? Yes - it was meant for emphasis.
I spoke to soon. Above.
Implying that something was wrong with my tone from your point of view? Can you tell me what it was in that particular post?
Your whole line of comments are negative tone. Whether you accept that critique or not is up to you. De ja vu.
What? What do you mean by "that?" Was this an attempt to mimic my use of the word "Entirely" as a stand-alone statement? I at least had context to lean on. You only used the word "that." I have no idea what "that" is a stand in for. You know what is probably even more important that "tone?" Being clear in your points. Maybe try it some time. (I am sure you don't like my "tone" here. Does this mean my words don't "work?")
Sounds like you're getting defensive.
I may take issue with the criticism if I feel it unjust... but yes. I have taken my licks when I have been wrong on many occasions. How do you behave under such circumstances?
Which is reasonable. Just watch how you reply back. It sends off wrong signals. Better to take a deep breathe and get something to drink. At least that is what I do. Everyone online should do it when getting into an argument about insults. The OP didn't target any one person.
QUOTE="A Vestigial Mote, post: 6591291, member: 57050"]Only for those who haven't thought about it very deeply. If you think on nothing else in this post from me, please consider this. When a person gets defensive (like I am sort of feeling from you in this reply of yours) to the idea that
they are responsible for the hurt that they feel from insults or words, what,
exactly, is it that such a person is
defending? What is there to be defensive over? Your "right" to be offended? Your "right" to be insulted? Do you
want to be insulted? Is that what it is about? If not, then what? What is it that is being defended when a person gets defensive over this idea?[/QUOTE]
like I am sort of feeling from you in this reply of yours to the idea that they are responsible for the hurt that they feel from insults or words, what
Don't take it personal. I just feel it doesn't make sense to say it's the other person's responsibility for their own hurt not the one who insults (I'm paraphrasing). In my opinion, if the person who insults can't accept he hurt the other person and he is to blame for that (his action), then it's not on the victim but the prey.
**Kind of like saying it's your responsibility to accept you're pain and not my fault even though I have the knife. Sometimes victims can't just excuse pain but it can be reconciled when the other knows their actions whether they agree with it or not is irrelevant.**
This is straightforward statement about any person who does this not specific to you.
Of what? That people are going to take offense to my criticisms? You think I didn't entirely realize this as having a high probability? Why on Earth do you think I adopt the "tone" that I do most often? There certainly are reasons you are feeling as you do when you read my words. These words are under my employ, and people fall for them nearly every time. I fall for them myself sometimes... but less often. And there are definite reasons for that.
Sounds like a defensive (rather) comment. Questions and "yous" sets that off.