Then why write this in the OP?I have no need to prove to others what I believe is right or wrong to them, what you believe is your personal belief.
By the way do not claim, I only speaking about my own belief. If others believe different than I do, no problem.
I am not here to convince others
That does not mean God isn't answering the prayer, but the answer was given to the person in an unexpected way, so the believer think, God did not answer. But actually it was the believer who was not paying attention.
You're inviting options for others to propose, one of which is perhaps the God believers think exists doesn't.
The young are told that a God exists, and that they can pray to this God to get benefits of some sort or another. This is learned behavior. Some believers start to realize things are off when the benefits don't show up. It is cruel to suggest something is wrong with the believer when they are being realistic.