The Sum of Awe
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I know I'm about to sound like a jerk here.
I have an old "friend' moving in with me at the end of this month it sounds like. I don't really want him to, I hate living with other men. Even if they're clean it just feels dirty
This guy is also annoying, as mean as it is to say. He talks over me in conversations and his conversations will be about the same, boring topic for an hour straight.
On top of that, I really like my privacy.
I told him it's only short term until he finds a place. He seems like the guy who would understand that and keep his word about it... but then again, he is moving 2 hours away from where he currently lives. He will have no friends up this way except for me. I think he'll expect to hang out now and again even after he moves out of my place, but I won't ever want to. And then I'd feel bad.
I'm not going to tell him no, that he can't live with me if that's what he wants to do. But I'm not pretending to be excited about it either. I'm just letting him know it's okay, I told him it's only short term until he finds a place. I told him "I hope you don't expect me to be outgoing, I really keep to myself a lot." and to that he said "I haven't been out much either. Except for the last couple of weekends I went to the bar in town here and... blah, blah, blah." so I don't know if he got what I was trying to say. I don't know how to say "I'll probably rarely hang out with you if you move up here" without being rude.
He will also be working with me, which is the sole reason he's moving up this way.
I have an old "friend' moving in with me at the end of this month it sounds like. I don't really want him to, I hate living with other men. Even if they're clean it just feels dirty
This guy is also annoying, as mean as it is to say. He talks over me in conversations and his conversations will be about the same, boring topic for an hour straight.
On top of that, I really like my privacy.
I told him it's only short term until he finds a place. He seems like the guy who would understand that and keep his word about it... but then again, he is moving 2 hours away from where he currently lives. He will have no friends up this way except for me. I think he'll expect to hang out now and again even after he moves out of my place, but I won't ever want to. And then I'd feel bad.
I'm not going to tell him no, that he can't live with me if that's what he wants to do. But I'm not pretending to be excited about it either. I'm just letting him know it's okay, I told him it's only short term until he finds a place. I told him "I hope you don't expect me to be outgoing, I really keep to myself a lot." and to that he said "I haven't been out much either. Except for the last couple of weekends I went to the bar in town here and... blah, blah, blah." so I don't know if he got what I was trying to say. I don't know how to say "I'll probably rarely hang out with you if you move up here" without being rude.
He will also be working with me, which is the sole reason he's moving up this way.