Yeah, it's different here.
I know my preference is for a man to be dominant in daily life. I like to be taken care of in that way. I like having my jacket handed to me, I like being asked after every bite at a restaurant, "Does it takes okay? Do you have enough spices?", etc.
I like being domestic in some ways. When we have friends over for dinner, and we're done eating, here the women get up, take away the dishes, bring the men their coffee and cigars, and leave. And we'll usually go out on the balcony with our coffee and cigarettes, and I just look at my husband and feel so proud, so you? I like... when he asks where his shirt is, I like that I know and he doesn't. And I like the way he looks at me when I do something for him, or when I look especially nice.
I think, in my head, these things are romantic. And maybe they're old-fashioned in the West, but it's how I prefer it. I like having my doors opened for me, I like how he shows me off when we're out at parties and things and how constantly concerned he is with my comfort.
And if that means I eat what he orders, and I sun tan in my bikini on the back lawn instead of front now, and I do the dishes at night instead of first thing in the morning - that's fine with me. Even though it's not obvious, I am in charge when I want to me. If I feel strongly about something, I always win - that's part of the dinamic of our relationships.
So, I don't know. I suppose it's just drilled into you at birth.