Riders
Well-Known Member
By alternative, I am speaking of those of us who date on a friendship level and have a playmate instead of someone we will marry.
I have had 2 one ft hem ended up being with me 2 and half years, was an alcoholic and sex addict and introduced me to the polyamory lifestyle and the idea of going to swinger parties and private porn parties. Because we had all that involved and a few other reasons it didn't work out, but in the beginning it did. We called it cuddling buddies. I had another guy named Mitch whom was a really nice guy but had physical issues and we did it for 4 months but only got together 4 times, he was really nice and it was a nice situation.
As a 52-year-old woman I run into single men my age not very much they are hard to find. When i do find them many are divorced and do not want to get married but do wany an activity partner.
My guy friend on ok wants to do things like go to the movies together, maybe go to some restaurants see some shipping centers. But we also want to be cuddling buddies, heavy petting without intercourse, handjobs etc.
There is a lot of Christians these days who do this and do not tell the church.
I can not be involved with bDSM, porn, Polyamory or swingers, so if he wants to be involved with that hed have to by himself.
12 Step programs look down on relationship situations unless its a serious long term relationship to either get married or live together. This would be a long term deal, but not to live together nor get married.
Some people call these situations a F-ing partner some cuddling partner, and some an activity partner.
Any opinions? This guy says he is monogomous though it would just be me and him.
WHat do you do if your 55 and divorced and have a bad romantic past but do not want to be alone?
I have had 2 one ft hem ended up being with me 2 and half years, was an alcoholic and sex addict and introduced me to the polyamory lifestyle and the idea of going to swinger parties and private porn parties. Because we had all that involved and a few other reasons it didn't work out, but in the beginning it did. We called it cuddling buddies. I had another guy named Mitch whom was a really nice guy but had physical issues and we did it for 4 months but only got together 4 times, he was really nice and it was a nice situation.
As a 52-year-old woman I run into single men my age not very much they are hard to find. When i do find them many are divorced and do not want to get married but do wany an activity partner.
My guy friend on ok wants to do things like go to the movies together, maybe go to some restaurants see some shipping centers. But we also want to be cuddling buddies, heavy petting without intercourse, handjobs etc.
There is a lot of Christians these days who do this and do not tell the church.
I can not be involved with bDSM, porn, Polyamory or swingers, so if he wants to be involved with that hed have to by himself.
12 Step programs look down on relationship situations unless its a serious long term relationship to either get married or live together. This would be a long term deal, but not to live together nor get married.
Some people call these situations a F-ing partner some cuddling partner, and some an activity partner.
Any opinions? This guy says he is monogomous though it would just be me and him.
WHat do you do if your 55 and divorced and have a bad romantic past but do not want to be alone?