I know that US citizens have special needs. And neither am I for a total ban on guns nor do I think it would work in the US. But the numbers show that there are too many irresponsible gun owners and that gun ownership has to be restricted. E.g. the vast majority of US citizens are for background checks and red flag laws, heck, the majority of NRA members are for that. But whenever such a bill is introduced every congressman and every senator gets a letter from the (leadership of the) NRA that they will support the campaign of an opponent if he votes "yes".
Some gun control legislation is also struck down in the courts based on the Second Amendment. A lot of issues could be resolved if the Second Amendment was repealed, but that doesn't seem to be politically feasible. A lot of people put a great deal of focus on the language of that Amendment and try to reinterpret it in any number of ways, but if they want to do away with it, they should just do away with it. If they can't do that, either because it's not politically expedient or they don't feel it's possible, then we're stuck with what we're stuck with.
Of course, I've also heard it said that the Constitution should not be considered a suicide pact.
On a political level, gun control is one of those hot button issues that always triggers intense debates and arguments. In order to deal with the issue in a more forthright manner, it would require a great deal of commitment of political capital - which some politicians aren't willing to commit. Many of them have made their political careers on manipulating and stoking the fears of the American people, and they can't very easily reverse themselves now.
Statistically, the murder rate has come down significantly since the crime waves of the 80s and 90s, although recent reports would indicate a bit of an uptick in the past year or two.
Personally, I don't really feel that unsafe. It's not that I'm not troubled by the level of violence out there, but it's not exactly the chaotic "Mad Max" dystopia that some people are trying to make it out to be. Maybe it's like that in some areas of some cities, like Chicago, which oftentimes sounds like some kind of war zone.