Zeroa
Dances With Mice
This seems relevant to being a seeker (or a Seeker, if it's your full-time gig )...
It has been my experience that when you're not on a specific path, or when you've gone down a path that people around you might disagree with, some people will begin to offer advice. How do you deal with unsolicited advice about your religious/spiritual life?
For my part, I've gotten really good at minimizing the situation and then changing the subject, for the most part. Mostly this happens for me with Christian relatives who aren't really interested in understanding why I am not a Christian, so I find it best in those situations to make family unity and happiness my priority.
And then there are times that you meet someone on a path that you might want to learn more about, but they don't bring it up. How do you approach that?
If they've seemed pretty open in the past about it, I might ask if we can talk about it, but for the most part, I just wait around for it to come up in conversation. I am really bad at asking questions. It feels too aggressive to me, no matter what soft approch I try. (People don't react badly, but I am uncomfortable with leading in a conversation, if that makes any sense.)
It has been my experience that when you're not on a specific path, or when you've gone down a path that people around you might disagree with, some people will begin to offer advice. How do you deal with unsolicited advice about your religious/spiritual life?
For my part, I've gotten really good at minimizing the situation and then changing the subject, for the most part. Mostly this happens for me with Christian relatives who aren't really interested in understanding why I am not a Christian, so I find it best in those situations to make family unity and happiness my priority.
And then there are times that you meet someone on a path that you might want to learn more about, but they don't bring it up. How do you approach that?
If they've seemed pretty open in the past about it, I might ask if we can talk about it, but for the most part, I just wait around for it to come up in conversation. I am really bad at asking questions. It feels too aggressive to me, no matter what soft approch I try. (People don't react badly, but I am uncomfortable with leading in a conversation, if that makes any sense.)