I want to thank all you who offered advise and support. It has been a trying few years. The doctor put little pellet implants just under the skin in my wife's hip. She feels that the current mixture was a little off, so once a month she goes in for a shot of some kind that works just fine. I'll...
Its been a couple of months since the hormone therapy started. After several visits to the Doctor and some trial and errors there has been some significant changes. I have my wife back. Maybe more importantly to say, she has herself back. She is no longer depressed, has more energy, is happy, is...
Hormone Therapy Update:
Not really going well. Maybe I was expecting too much too soon. The doctor promised that her moods would regulate, her sex drive would come back, etc, etc , etc. She was actually excited in the doctors office. Said she would love to be like her old self again. It hasn't...
Well today the wheels came off our plan. I have been working on a big project at work for the last couple of weeks, friday it looked like it was going to fall through. This morning when we got up she said she had a dream and and explained how I could salvage my project. It was awesome! I told...
I've been ready the book "What Women Want Men to Know". It talks alot about a women needing to feel valued and safe in a relationship. The way that is done from my side is including her in my "world". I've been trying. My wife said she has noticed my openness to share more information about...
Am I that shallow? Men, we are messed up! I think spoil her with a bunch of stuff and that equals love, she feels less involved and therefore less respected, I think I should be getting more sex not less, I probably do disrespect her because I am resentful of the queen I have created...Holy...
Wow, we have gone through that stage. She has asked me to stop bringing home flowers or any other gifts, because they make her sick. Now my gut check moment. It's what she has been saying, and you just said it....Do I really disrespect my wife? I say I love her, I feel love for her, I don't want...
I really appreciate the feedback. I have heard her say over and over "I'm not needed anymore". I thought I was spoiling her by providing luxuries like maids and nannies. Giving her the plastic surgery she asked for so she wouldn't feel, or seem to feel, those things about her body. But all...
Okay, I'm back. My wife had a death in her family so I didn't think it was an appropriate time to discuss this particular subject. We have since had a discussion. She said she is not turned on by me anymore, and doesn't feel close to me anymore because I don't listen to her anymore. Now, the...
Well I found the LDS thread and posted there. My post was removed because, silly me I used the same title. So rather than start over I came back to this one. Besides, I kind of liked some of the feedback. Ladies, you're right, what kind of "love" would it be if we had to argue about it. And...
First, masturbation is against Mormon doctrine because it's giving into the desires of man. Second, I have tried the romantic dinners, favorite restaurants, roses, jewelry...etc. We have tried to talk, but end up stopping before it causes too much of an argument. She has reluctantly given in and...
My wife and I are both in our 40's. I've noticed that over the last 2 years her desire for sex has significantly decreased while mine has remained the same, if not increased. Our "normal" used to be 2 to 3 times a week. Now its down to 2 to 3 times a month. The issue has began causing arguments...