Great job writing all that and entering the fray! So far, you're the only one who has done so! Congratulations and I find it very noble, for indeed, if one has the right way, how cruel is it not to share it, and furthermore, how poor a soldier is one who doesn't even stand up for what they think...
It is not only a problem in Islam. The Jehovah's Witnesses also feel pressure to make their children into believers. There are scriptures that are repeated often as "food at the right time" among JWs.
Deuteronomy 6:6,7
These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts...
I cannot speak for all Abrahamic faiths, but I do not believe that Christianity facilitates abuse. You paraphrased a verse from the Old Testament (there's actually a few that are similar), e.g. :
"The rod and rebuke give wisdom, but a child left to himself brings shame to his mother." Proverbs...
Psalms and ProverbsProverbs 12:21
"There shall no evil happen to the just but the wicked shall be filled with mischief."
Proverbs 12:2
"A good man obtaineth favour of the Lord but a man of wicked devices will He condemn."
Proverbs 3:27-31
"Withold not good from them to whom it is due...