I would question your participation on a forum full of Christians if your trauma is deep. It doesn't seem helpful for one's mental state. I understand that some horrible things have happened to you and I hope you can recover from those things. To put that on others is unfair though, to say...
There are many cases where practical help may not be in one's hands, or prayer is offered alongside practical help. Disasters happening in foreign countries are beyond the resources of most people, so prayer is seen as a way to ask someone who does have the power to help.
Not really. You don't seem to have been to an Anglican church in a long time.
For goodness sake, how hard is this.
Theists who pray believe prayer works. We believe God hears us and acts.
It's not about feeling better for having done something in that sense, although yes it feels good to do...
I think though, with respect, you need to put those behind you and understand that most modern Christians are not like that. I go to both Catholic and Anglican churches and have not come across this attitude. I don't know what kind of Christians you were with but they are not representative.
I think some people are misunderstanding people saying they'll pray for them as some kind of backhanded offence. It is really not meant that way. One wonders if the recipient's ideology is projecting onto the person offering the prayer.
I don't care.
I don't expect people to tell or ask me, they just do it. I pray for 'all my friends' basically everyday, and that includes people on here.
It was your thread. I just wanted to be able to give it a :praying: rating, then realised we didn't have one, so brought it up to Staff.
So we put it to the membership and then everything just kind of exploded.
:shrug:
Err, what? We're not some clandestine organisation. We were pretty clear that 'prayer' is involved and the forum is called 'religious forums'. It's not difficult to work out what that might mean. If someone had asked us we'd have said it looks like this :praying:, which is exactly what...
Most of us here aren't even on Facebook. I have never had an account there.
But the OP clearly says 'prayer'. I mean, what on earth did you think that would look like?
I'm not sure what is abstract about a prayer rating. There are just a bunch of people on here determined to make an issue of something so minor that it has even left Staff baffled. The response has been incredibly negative to something we hadn't even considered would arouse such a fuss. Having a...