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Deviled Hen
To make someone believe that they will be okay and let them go there merry way without warning them of danger is wrong. People don't mind if others talk about God to them as long as if when they leave they can just forget about it and go back to doing their own thing, but being right with God is more important than anything and if a person isn't they don't have anything.
And to scare the living crap out of someone from childhood on, so that they believe God is a sadist, so they eventually run away from any version of God as fast as possible, is stupidity of the highest order.
Yes, justice is one of the attributes of God.
So is mercy and forgiveness.
Yes, fear is a great motivator.
Love is a stronger one, and one that ends up with a more lasting faith.