Some thoughts on God's grace, heaven, and hell, that I read and thought others might find interesting. I'll post part of it. It's from Randy Alcorn's website, but I'm not allowed to post the URL yet because I haven't made enough posts yet
I'm concerned that your treatment of the doctrine of hell is an attempt to choose between grace and truth rather than embracing both. I remember you affirming that you believe so much in God's grace, you cannot believe in hell. This has, if I understood correctly, led you to universalism, believing men cannot go to an eternal hell, because Jesus purchased the world's redemption. Therefore, all people will end up in heaven regardless of their choices in this life. "I love people too much to send them to hell," your logic goes. "And surely God loves them more than I do!"
If logic was my authority, I might agree. But since Scripture's my authority, I can't. I remember asking you if you believed heaven was eternal. You said yes, you did. Then I quoted Matthew 25:46, "Then they will go away to eternal punishment,
but the righteous to eternal life." The words translated "eternal" are the same Greek word
aionos. If "eternal" means heaven lasts forever, it can only mean hell lasts forever. There's just no way Christ would change the meaning of that word a heartbeat (six words later) after saying it the first time
As I was studying recently I saw that Jesus, full of grace, spoke more about hell than anyone else in Scripture. Twelve of the fourteen times the main New Testament word for hell is used, it's by Jesus. He spoke of being in danger of the fire of hell (Matt. 5:22), being thrown into hell (Matt 5:29), said people should fear God, "the One who can destroy both soul and body in hell" (Matt 10:28). He asked the Pharisees, "How will you escape being condemned to hell?" (Matt 23:33). He depicted hell as a place men are "in torment," without hope of relief (Luke 16:23).
God's grace faces straight-on hell's reality, and offers full deliverance. Denying hell takes the wind out of grace's sails. If there's no eternal hell, the stakes of redemption are vastly lowered. What did Jesus die to rescue us from? And if you say the answer is that Jesus rescued all men from hell despite whether they accept Him, what is the point of Jesus depicting the rich man in hell crying out for mercy which he clearly is not being granted? Surely we don't know something Jesus didn't, do we?
Grace is God's work to deliver us from the full extent of our depravity, and its full punishment (eternal hell). By understating depravity and denying eternal hell we lower the cost of our redemption. We cheapen grace. By diminishing the truth that demanded the ultimate price for sin, we diminish the grace that paid that price.