Riders
Well-Known Member
So I think that some people including me make the mistake of confusing the notion of finding romance with a man with finding religion.
I mean when I was in the Pentecostal church we all claimed to be a family and called each other Brother and Sister. My name is Elizabeth and they would call me sister Elizabeth.
So a spiritual home does replace the family if you don´t have one and so does having a romance. A nice man and a home with my cat and a white picket fence.
Itś a dream. My Dad was a wimp, my Mom beat him up when she was drunk and verbally abused him for a while after she sobered up, So I was not close to him for a long time.
He also did not show up to visit me while I was in the psych wards, I missed out on having a Father for almost 3 years in the psych wards.
So I have a tendency to turn any man who is in a romance with me into a father figure.
So any relationship I could have would turn toxic. I will not allow myself to get into a relationship until I have had some counseling.
But back to the topic, yes I believe we who want a relationship and can find one do get desperate. I have seen too many Dr. Phil's shows on catfishing with women who just do not want to face the truth. I just think after my relationship with God gets better too I will have God as my father figure.
It is sad about scamfishing.
I mean when I was in the Pentecostal church we all claimed to be a family and called each other Brother and Sister. My name is Elizabeth and they would call me sister Elizabeth.
So a spiritual home does replace the family if you don´t have one and so does having a romance. A nice man and a home with my cat and a white picket fence.
Itś a dream. My Dad was a wimp, my Mom beat him up when she was drunk and verbally abused him for a while after she sobered up, So I was not close to him for a long time.
He also did not show up to visit me while I was in the psych wards, I missed out on having a Father for almost 3 years in the psych wards.
So I have a tendency to turn any man who is in a romance with me into a father figure.
So any relationship I could have would turn toxic. I will not allow myself to get into a relationship until I have had some counseling.
But back to the topic, yes I believe we who want a relationship and can find one do get desperate. I have seen too many Dr. Phil's shows on catfishing with women who just do not want to face the truth. I just think after my relationship with God gets better too I will have God as my father figure.
It is sad about scamfishing.