The best course to take would be to change the name of non-Religious marriages. Lets be honest. The comcept of marriage IS a religious establishment. Whether or not the Federal Government or people in general view it otherwise is irrelevent to this one point, that MARRIAGE in its basic form is and establishment of Religion. That being said, The Federal Government has seen fit to take that establishment and set forth "rewards" and "benefits" to being married that appeal to more than just the Religious. i.e tax breaks, joint filling on taxes and more. Marriage is a basic Religious idea used to express commitment to one another. Now, seeing as how marriage is a religious establishment, the Religious institution in which it is being used has the right to determine certain stipulations on who is acceptable to be married. i.e man/woman only. And they are protected to do so under the First Admendement, which states that Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of Religion, which by all practical means goes both ways. In essence, it means that Congress cannot tell Religions what they can and cannot decide regarding their institutions, but at the same time, Religion cannot dictate to Congress how it should be all around. Which is why banning gay marriages is simply unconstitutional, but the Church has the right to deny the gay couple marriage. Which is why Congress needs to make a way for gays to get "married" or "joined" with the same benefits and rewards offered to the straights who get married. It comes down to Symantx. Simple labels. Give the gays the same rigths, just dont call it a Marriage. Civil Union is just fine. I ma all for the gays getting married just as long as they get the same benefits. Whcih leads me to my final point. To all those religious gay people out there who are mad that your religion wont marry you to the one you love, They obviously reject you, so why would you want to be associated with them anymore? Why not find a better religion that will accept you? There are plenty of Christian Churches out there that are more than willing to marry gays. In conclusion, banning gay marriages is unconstitional. The Fedearl Government and State governments have no right to ban it. It irritates me that 11 states have compelte bans accross the board on Gay marriages. Makes me kind of glad to live in Arizona where on the mid-term election last year, the people of this state voted down a measure to ban gay marriages accross the board, so at least here, gays can get unions with the same benefits as those who are married.