I've actually never tied morality to anything outside of hurting others-speech, body, or mind. Anything outside of that the morality is individual. So, I can't say "this type of sex" is morally bad. It may be taboo and make me uncomfortable (say opposite-sex sex for example
) but nothing to where I call it a sin. It's one thing to say the act is wrong but another to relate to murder and rape. It translate as homosexuals are murderers and rapists-which the latter was highly believed in the past. In the early 1990s during Clinton in the US homosexuals couldn't be boy scout leaders for fear he would molest young boys.
I mean many christians may think LGBTQ is focused on their morals but it really goes beyond theological differences.
I wish this applied in christianity to same-sex couples who wish to touch the people they love. I can't imagine many christians who can't do this. Though, my friend (former girlfriend) is heavily christian and believes god knows her heart.
I understand if it were murder but not sex.
Putting god-says-so aside for a minute what's inherently wrong with same-sex sex that causes negative consequences?
I know you said it separates them from god but from a non-god view how is it wrong (assuming the intentions are healthy and safe sex between both parties involved)?
When a christian says same-sex sex is wrong to many it translates not just from scripture, but medically, morally (from the couple's point of view), legally, and otherwise. Those reasons that hurt people or take people's rights away rather than theological differences.
That's a pretty harsh way to use same-sex sex and murder together with similar gravity. Can you imagine how a christian gay person feels when he sees homosexual align with murder and rape? No matter how a person interprets it, it's not a good feeling.
Is it only theologically and morally bad based on christian values?
I know there are christians on this board that mistake their christian values with medical facts in regards to sexual orientation, homosexuals, and same-sex sex. I would say the two are completely separate due to culture, language, bias, laws, and people's personal experiences.
I can see those who engage in sexual promiscuity. Though I'm coming from couples who do not.