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A man is coming onto me, and I need to establish boundaries!

VoidCat

VoidCat

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syo said:
You approached the man because it was what you wanted. The man didn't harass you begging you to hold hands.
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Are you saying he wants to have his boundaries invaded? Just cuz he wants to be friends with someone doesn't mean they have the right to invade his boundaries. He did say tho that the guy respected the boundary which is good but that logic you have is just wrong. All relationships friendship and otherwise require boundaries. And some folk forcibly invade those and folks shouldn't be around them.
 
syo

syo

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RayofLight said:
Are you saying he wants to have his boundaries invaded? Just cuz he wants to be friends with someone doesn't mean they have the right to invade his boundaries. He did say tho that the guy respected the boundary which is good but that logic you have is just wrong. All relationships friendship and other require boundaries. And some folk forcibly invade those and folks shouldn't be around them.
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I don't understand. What?
 
VoidCat

VoidCat

Pronouns: he/him/they/them
syo said:
I don't understand. What?
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You said this
You approached the man because it was what you wanted. The man didn't harass you begging you to hold hands.
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That implies if the guy were to invade his boundaries you assume it'd be his fault cuz he chose to be friends. At least that's how it came off.
 
syo

syo

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Secret Chief said:
What you think of them are your opinions, not the people themselves. You seem to be being deliberately obtuse.
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I'll say it clearly. gandi jesus teresa and buddha are four people that MOST people think these four people are saints the norm etc. and if someone sends gandi to hell other people will cast off the person who said ''my opinion is that gandi should go to hell''. Got it now???
 
Secret Chief

Secret Chief

nirvana is samsara
syo said:
I'll say it clearly. gandi jesus teresa and buddha are four people that MOST people think these four people are saints the norm etc. and if someone sends gandi to hell other people will cast off the person who said ''my opinion is that gandi should go to hell''. Got it now???
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I got it before. Not sure you got what I said, but never mind..
 
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