Subduction Zone
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Much better than "bugger off" in this situation. He just might take that literally.I think “**** off” would work,never had to use it in that situation but it’s two small words that mean so much imo.
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Much better than "bugger off" in this situation. He just might take that literally.I think “**** off” would work,never had to use it in that situation but it’s two small words that mean so much imo.
If you think gandi and jesus are opinions, WHAT can I say?Yes.
Are you saying he wants to have his boundaries invaded? Just cuz he wants to be friends with someone doesn't mean they have the right to invade his boundaries. He did say tho that the guy respected the boundary which is good but that logic you have is just wrong. All relationships friendship and otherwise require boundaries. And some folk forcibly invade those and folks shouldn't be around them.You approached the man because it was what you wanted. The man didn't harass you begging you to hold hands.
What you think of them are your opinions, not the people themselves. You seem to be being deliberately obtuse.If you think gandi and jesus are opinions, WHAT can I say?
Keep in mind, his culture may find this normal behavior between two straight friends.This man asked me once to hold his hand. I said no and he respected it.
Which is why you had to explain you don't want that. Boundaries don't work if you don't explain them.Keep in mind, his culture may find this normal behavior between two straight friends.
I don't understand. What?Are you saying he wants to have his boundaries invaded? Just cuz he wants to be friends with someone doesn't mean they have the right to invade his boundaries. He did say tho that the guy respected the boundary which is good but that logic you have is just wrong. All relationships friendship and other require boundaries. And some folk forcibly invade those and folks shouldn't be around them.
I explainedWhich is why you had to explain you don't want that. Boundaries don't work if you don't explain them.
You said thisI don't understand. What?
That implies if the guy were to invade his boundaries you assume it'd be his fault cuz he chose to be friends. At least that's how it came off.You approached the man because it was what you wanted. The man didn't harass you begging you to hold hands.
Yep. Which is good.I explained
I'll say it clearly. gandi jesus teresa and buddha are four people that MOST people think these four people are saints the norm etc. and if someone sends gandi to hell other people will cast off the person who said ''my opinion is that gandi should go to hell''. Got it now???What you think of them are your opinions, not the people themselves. You seem to be being deliberately obtuse.
Nah. totally wrong. misunderstanding.You said this
That implies if the guy were to invade his boundaries you assume it'd be his fault cuz he chose to be friends. At least that's how it came off.
Sorry for the misunderstanding thenNah. totally wrong. misunderstanding.
I got it before. Not sure you got what I said, but never mind..I'll say it clearly. gandi jesus teresa and buddha are four people that MOST people think these four people are saints the norm etc. and if someone sends gandi to hell other people will cast off the person who said ''my opinion is that gandi should go to hell''. Got it now???
You compared jesus to tom hanks and lemonade.I got it before. Not sure you got what I said, but never mind..
No I did not.You compared jesus to tom hanks and lemonade.
You compared opinion on Jesus equals opinion on tom hanks. happy now?No I did not.
No I did not. I said your opinions on them ie anything and everything are just that and no more - YOUR opinions. I'm still happy.You compared opinion on Jesus equals opinion on tom hanks. happy now?
whateverNo I did not. I'm still happy.
LolYou compared jesus to tom hanks and lemonade.