Wholesome, pure intention, genuinely kind to be kind- not wanting or expecting anything in return or having poor ulterior motives.
Not a harsh or hypocritical judge- has empathy, compassion, understanding towards others,
Words align with actions. Beliefs align with actions. Not a hypocrite. Not two-faced.
No pleasure from the pain and suffering of others. Respects all of life and sees it as equal.
Not of any bad ego- doesn’t want to control anyone else, handles rejection just fine, is not condescending towards others, not haughty, not vengeful, no bad hero complex, doesn’t care to be praised, worshipped, admired, not vain, doesn’t shame or guilt others.
Respects the privacy and freedom of others if not harming others.
Is just, fair, doesn’t only respect its like-minded or kind.
Loyal, faithful, having integrity.
Doesn’t see any other gender or race below it, or tries to control it.
Desires others to become as responsibly free, self-sufficient, and independent as possible in mind, body, spirit.
Will not try to coerce, manipulate, mold, or prey upon the weaker, more ignorant for its own bad personal gains.
Will not enable or assist the demise of others. Will express tough love when required.
Will not stroke the bad ego/inauthentic self of another.
Does not need to learn or know lessons or be thankful at the expense of others misery and suffering.
Will not violate the volition or freedom of another. Must be with consent.
Not physically or mentally or verbally abusive towards others.
Is not afraid to unleash tough love or resistance when seeing evil. Is not a pacified doormat.
I’m sure I’ve missed a lot, but this would eliminate almost every perception of “god” or most doctrines or practices. And all human beings to varying degrees at one point or another in “their” lives.