VoidCat
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Trigger warning- mention of rape
So I came across this on here:
So I came across this on here:
Now this is not the point of this thread...I just bring it up to point out why I was reading up on laws regarding sexual purity and immorality...cuz I realized altho Ive read that story a thousand times it for some reason it escaped my mind the fact she complained about him not marrying her...I mean I knew she did but it didn't get processed. So while I was trying to figure out why Tamar wanted to marry her rapist( still figuring it out...I think it may have to do with how low women were thought of if they weren't married and the emphasis on virginity before marriage that it was just preferable to marry him rather then be a social outcast not that she actually wanted to) I noticed something. There are a few things Leviticus, Exodus, and Deuteronomy missed making me wonder if those werent all the laws regarding sexual immorality and purity given to the Jews at the time. Like for example: what happens if a child or married women is raped? It doesnt say. Either these things werent important or acknowledged or laws regarding it werent mentioned. It also seems based on the wording of Deuteronomy 22:28-29 the man is commanded to marry her not the other way around...not sure if it makes much of a difference but very curious wording. Then again I dont know ancient Hebrew and relying on multiple translations and scholars...and I have yet to Google what words are used in Hebrew and what scholars say they mean. Thoughts?Rape victims having to marry their rapist? Unthinkable today in the USA.
But back then, Tamar complained. Know that story?
Tamar was a rape victim and she knew that she had to marry the rapist, and yet she complained....She complained about the rapist NOT wanting to marry her.
That's Bible. That's how things used to be back then, I think. 2 Samuel 13:16.
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