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Catholic church cannot bless same-sex unions

PruePhillip

Well-Known Member
So women are conscripts, you say? The government should own them? The world needs more people, you say? Really?

Absolutely. At what point do you think the population of America will reach 100 ?
Not 100 million but 100.
We need at least 2.1 kids per couple. Otherwise you get one of two things happening
1 - mass immigration where you rely on little brown women to have your kids - that's sexism and racism BTW
2 - demographic death spiral - but long before that happens you will lose more than your tradesmen, firemen,
teachers, scientists, fruit pickets etc - you will lose your whole nation to anyone who has just a few more people
than you.
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber
Surely you jest (and don't call me Shirley)
Nope. We wipe with paper instead of cleaning. Lots of people around the world think we are disgusting because of that.
There's a price to pay for 'progress.' When we stopped arranged marriages
we gave people more freedom, but more broken marriages.
And same too with 'fixing' irrecoverable marriages' by 'no fault divorce' led to
many marriage failing that would otherwise not have failed.
When we take away authority from teachers we give this authority to students
against teachers.
You blame no more arranged marriages. I blame the nuclear family for reducing the number of people we consider family and sending the rest away.
Spending less on our military meant just making bigger bombs.
Spend less? America spends more money on it's military than the next several nations combined.
Creating a 'safety net' for the poor increased the poor and created welfare
dependency.
Most be a serious problem for countries with better social safety nets but way less poverty. Damn them for totally destroying your claim.
I am fine with some of the above 'cos I grew up with them. But I take offense
when people can't see that each new liberation leads to a new problem.
You apparently take offense at Jesus' commandments to take care of the poor, give money to the poor, and treat the poor very well seeing as how you have a fantasy objection to welfare programs.
 

blü 2

Veteran Member
Premium Member
Absolutely. At what point do you think the population of America will reach 100 ?
Not 100 million but 100.
We need at least 2.1 kids per couple. Otherwise you get one of two things happening
1 - mass immigration where you rely on little brown women to have your kids - that's sexism and racism BTW
2 - demographic death spiral - but long before that happens you will lose more than your tradesmen, firemen,
teachers, scientists, fruit pickets etc - you will lose your whole nation to anyone who has just a few more people
than you.
You don't address the moral questions, which I think are the substantial issue here.
 

PruePhillip

Well-Known Member
The priority of decency, respect and inclusion over sets of rules.

Some questions if I may:
How old can a child be before it can have a transgender change - either operation or chemical castration?
You fine with jailing the parents if they oppose said operation? (Vic legislation)
You okay with euthanizing people who can't make informed decisions?
Do you think America can have Required Speech laws like Canada?
Should we okay the shutting down of book publications (ie Penguin - Peterson issue) and via Twitter, Facebook and Amazon?
Why doesn't the Woke call out Martin Luther King for his outright rape of women?
Why is the loss of children, elderly forgotten in nursing homes and declining education standards not a hot button issue?
You fine with banning religion in schools but allowing kids to be politicized by cultural Marxists?
Can a depressed 18 year old be supported in a decision to end their life, seeing how it's their life, not yours?
Did you believe that theory that marijuana is not a gateway drug to harder narcotics?
Did you ever believe, as a younger person, that we would ever reach a point where half our kids are from broken homes?
Do you believe 'whole learning' is better for schools because learning about yourself is better than rote reading skills?
Do you think sentencing leniency is a good thing?
Should there be stronger laws against deadbeat dads instead of the tax payer caring for the kids?
You aware of the connection between 'single parent' and education outcomes?

... this could go on forever. Frankly I don't see 'decency, respect and inclusion' in most of our social problems.
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber
Absolutely. At what point do you think the population of America will reach 100 ?
Not 100 million but 100.
We need at least 2.1 kids per couple. Otherwise you get one of two things happening
1 - mass immigration where you rely on little brown women to have your kids - that's sexism and racism BTW
2 - demographic death spiral - but long before that happens you will lose more than your tradesmen, firemen,
teachers, scientists, fruit pickets etc - you will lose your whole nation to anyone who has just a few more people
than you.
We need fewer people. Having fewer kids for awhile can only be a sigh of relief for the Earth.
 

PruePhillip

Well-Known Member
We need fewer people. Having fewer kids for awhile can only be a sigh of relief for the Earth.

Forget about the earth, what about your country?
Whose going to look after you when you are old? Some Phillipino woman brought
into to change your nappies?
You going to get Chinese contractors to man your armed services? Why not disarm?
Who is going to fight those forest fires? In my town there's only one kid in our fire dept - the rest are old men.
And that forest your country sold to fund the pension scheme - the Chinese are wood chipping it now.
Can't afford to maintain the roads anymore with no workers? Easy, sell off your fishery rights.
 
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Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber
Some Phillipino woman
Wouldn't bother me.
what about your country?
What about it? I'm strongly considering leaving because I'm tired of my medical bills eating me up. Leaving appeals to me because people in other countries aren't as religious--or as crazy and dogmatic about it--as they are here. I detest this culture of material consumption. And I want to get out because if I am to live through another pandemic I don't want to be where the people are selfishly destructive and believe rights, liberties, and freedoms mean we can do whatever we want without consideration of consequences or consideration to others. Especially if it's more deadly than this one.
Forget about the earth
Why? The Earth is our Mother. Indeed, the Mother of all Life on Earth. It is from her we come, and to her we return. It is the Home we all share. We should put the planet first in our legislative policies.
 

PruePhillip

Well-Known Member
Wouldn't bother me.

What about it? I'm strongly considering leaving because I'm tired of my medical bills eating me up. Leaving appeals to me because people in other countries aren't as religious--or as crazy and dogmatic about it--as they are here. I detest this culture of material consumption. And I want to get out because if I am to live through another pandemic I don't want to be where the people are selfishly destructive and believe rights, liberties, and freedoms mean we can do whatever we want without consideration of consequences or consideration to others. Especially if it's more deadly than this one.

Why? The Earth is our Mother. Indeed, the Mother of all Life on Earth. It is from her we come, and to her we return. It is the Home we all share. We should put the planet first in our legislative policies.

We have a generation trashing rights, liberties and freedom. Who would have thought.
Old saying, bad times make good people, good people make good times, good times
make bad people and bad people make bad times.

We are at the 'bad people make bad times' since about the 1960's.
 

blü 2

Veteran Member
Premium Member
Some questions if I may:
How old? It will vary from jurisdiction to jurisdiction. Some forms of hermaphroditism, I seem to recall, have been surgically dealt with soon after birth.
Vic is Victoria? You speak of things I have no knowledge of.
I think Canada's "required speech" laws, as you call them, are absurd.
And so on and so on.

But back to the point. I answered your questions. You're not responding to mine.

The matters you mention in your end-tag emphasize sex matters.

I set out my response ─ in brief, principles of decency, respect, inclusion, honesty ahead of rules and enforcers. Not just for sexual issues but for all occasions.

Clearly we differ.
 

PruePhillip

Well-Known Member
How old? It will vary from jurisdiction to jurisdiction. Some forms of hermaphroditism, I seem to recall, have been surgically dealt with soon after birth.
Vic is Victoria? You speak of things I have no knowledge of.
I think Canada's "required speech" laws, as you call them, are absurd.
And so on and so on.

But back to the point. I answered your questions. You're not responding to mine.

The matters you mention in your end-tag emphasize sex matters.

I set out my response ─ in brief, principles of decency, respect, inclusion, honesty ahead of rules and enforcers. Not just for sexual issues but for all occasions.

Clearly we differ.

Funny... we were out with friends tonight. And it came up in conversation about the
sentence, "Me and my missus." Someone hated it. Others hated the 'me and...' part.
We spoke of a time when you had 'rules and enforcers' who told you to put yourself
last. What society do you want to live in, where you are first or where you are second?
 

Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
Homosexual does mean same sex. It is the literal meaning of the combined prefix of homo and root word of sexual.

Thus homosexual.

Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination. Levitcus 18:22
If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them. Leviticus 20:13
Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error. Romans 18:26-27
Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with mena]">[a] 10 nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 1 Corinthians 9-10
Why should we lie about what the Bible says? Why not practice truth and honesty? The Bible does call homosexuals abominations, it does say what they do is detestable and unnatural, and it does say they are to be put to death. This is what the Bible teaches, and Jesus gave multiple warnings about lessening what the Bible says, trying to say certain things don't apply, and perverting the practice to openly allow sin. You see it as helpful to try to downplay this and cover it up. I see that as destructive, and the helpful thing to be honest about what the Bible clearly says right in front of us. Men who have sex with men don't go to Heaven. The "affirming Churches" are clearly in the wrong.

Wait. You believe because homosexuals are attracted to the same sex, they have same sex sex, therefore when the bible talks about same sex sex, they are talking about gay people?

You equate sexual orientation to who a person has sex with?

Many gay people do not define our attraction by who we "choose" to have sex with.

(I know all the assumed "gay" scripture. I studied it when I came out and read the Bible. Quoting scripture,as I tell christians, is not as helpful as speaking in ones (rather) own words. The bible was not written in english, not our culture, and translators did not know about sexual orientation.)
 
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Glaurung

Denizen of Niflheim
The Old Testament laws clearly show which actions were abominable, and your list of 'Moral Laws' clearly ignores many of them
Because the Mosaic Law and the moral law are not the same thing. The Mosaic Law was given to a specific group for a specific time. That time - according to Christians - has come and gone. On the other hand, the Biblical prohibition against same sex acts is a moral prohibition. Not just Mosaic. And we know this because the prohibition against it is specifically affirmed in the New Testament.

1 Corinthians 6:9 NIV
Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men

So there's two contradicting principles, straight off. A Consistent Opinion that the majority will be damned whilst St Faustina tells you that any who wish salvation shall have it.
It is not a contradiction. Anyone who sincerely wishes salvation will achieve it. But to wish salvation is to be willing to do all that is necessary to accomplish that end.

Secondly, the idea that the majority of people will wind up in Hell is as I said not a doctrine of faith. It is an opinion. If an eminently justifiable one.

Rubbish...... it is just a fact that people can be in love with others of their own gender. There's no 'moral' good or bad about it.
One of the major themes in Christian thought is that our passions incline us towards sin. It is seen as a sad fact of the human condition. And you're right in that this inclination (concupiscence) (and homosexuality is but one manifestation of concupiscence) is not in and of itself a sin. We sin, when we consent to that inclination by illicit thoughts or acts. Our responsibly as rational creatures with free wills is to resist the pull of our concupiscent desires and instead pursue virtue. As the Buddhists say. Desire is suffering. Kill desire.

You didn't need to listen to Aquinas, you had Jesus who explained quite clearly which laws to follow or not.
Well no actually. Protestant presuppositions won't get you far with me. The Bible is neither all-exhaustive or self-evident. And in fact Jesus gave us no texts whatsoever. He gave us a Church with a teaching authority. So in terms of how I am to understand Scripture, I look to the tradition and the great thinkers of the Church's history. If I were to read Scripture by the power of my own lights I would certainly fall into error.

There was no 'moral' law, but there were commandments, sacrificial rules and ceremonial rules.
Nonsense. Many of the commandments are clearly moral in content. The Christian contention is that the those commandments which hold moral content (such as the prohibition against murder) still apply. Not because they are Mosaic. But because those commandments fall under the moral law. Or in old terms, the natural law, which existed before the Mosaic covenant.

The commandments were all about building a strong, powerful, large and successful nation of people. Jesus dismissed the sacrificial/ceremonial stuff because it just kept a fat, greedy, hypocritical, corrupt priesthood.
That may be your view, but I reject it. The commandments were a condition of the covenant which God made with the Israelites. And while God did promise the Israelites worldly strength as a nation, the covenant's main purpose was the foreshadowing of Christ. That the messiah was to take birth among them necessitated their separation from the surrounding cultures. Also, the Pharisees were not all priests. They were the forerunners of the Rabbis, which isn't a priesthood. And the sacrificial system ceased to exist with the destruction of the second temple by the Romans. Which in the Christian view has been superseded by the new New Covenant in Christ. Which itself is a sacramental system with a priesthood.

Total bunkum. The dietary laws were ALL required back then to avoid sickness and death. Sin led to sickness, not evil.
No. The dietary laws were required as a condition of the the Mosaic covenant. Your assertion that it was really about making a strong, healthy nation is just that... An assertion.

No it does not. It is a human right which should be acknowledged.
It speaks volumes that you think anal sex is a human right. But wouldn't that logically entail that anyone who denies me sex violates my human rights?

Look. It's one thing to say that consenting adults should not be criminalized for what they do in the privacy of their own bedrooms. And I agree with you. If you want to have sex with another man fine, do it. It is your conscience. But to say that everything permissible is a 'human right' frankly trivializes the very concept of human rights.

It can lead to sickness where couples are not closed, just as it can with hetero-couples.
Continually sticking things up your butt runs certain risks regardless of monogamy. If you want to take those risks fine.

Today we do have much better understanding about safety, security and medicine and don't need to have masses of babies to strengthen our tribes, so some adjustment would be sensible.
Actually, many nations have serious looming problems in regards to a declining population. That is rapidly ageing mind you.

But some Christians are just stuck in the millennia old framework, whilst other Christians accept gay love, recognise gay partnerships, ordain gay priests and even marry gays. Those are the Churches that should grow, imo.
Those are the churches collapsing the fastest.

My hope is not to please you. It is not to spare people's feelings. It is not to be progressive and fall in line with the social orthodoxy of the moment. My hope, ultimately, is to face God with a clean conscience. To be ready the day I'm summoned from this world.
 
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Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber
Wait. You believe because homosexuals are attracted to the same sex, they have same sex sex, therefore when the bible talks about same sex sex, they are talking about gay people?

You equate sexual orientation to who a person has sex with?

Many gay people do not define our attraction by who we "choose" to have sex with.

(I know all the assumed "gay" scripture. I studied it when I came out and read the Bible. Quoting scripture,as I tell christians, is not as helpful as speaking in ones (rather) own words. The bible was not written in english, not our culture, and translators did not know about sexual orientation.)
This splitting hairs does remove the smell of faeces from the Bible. I posted several verses where the Bible does factually disparage and degrade homosexuals amd calls for their murder.
It's not my fault people are so obsessed with clinging onto this book that wants them dead they try to pretend otherwise and violate Jesus teachings to do so. If it's not good for them to hear (it's not) the best thing to do is leave rather than continuing to follow with something that has demanded your death and pretending it all days otherwise.
 

Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
This splitting hairs does remove the smell of faeces from the Bible. I posted several verses where the Bible does factually disparage and degrade homosexuals amd calls for their murder.

It's not my fault people are so obsessed with clinging onto this book that wants them dead they try to pretend otherwise and violate Jesus teachings to do so. If it's not good for them to hear (it's not) the best thing to do is leave rather than continuing to follow with something that has demanded your death and pretending it all days otherwise.

I'ma put this in numbers for clarity.

1. I asked you whether or not you believed a gay person is gay because he has sex with someone of his own sex(and I asked whether sexual attraction means someone who sleeps with his or her own sex).

2. I asked because if you do believe sexual orientation means someone who has sex with the same sex (as thousands of christians do), what you say makes sense: a gay person is a sinner because he is gay-the bible says.

3. I do not believe that a gay person is gay because he has sex with his own sex. I believe that a gay person is romantically/physically/mentally attracted to his own sex.

-who he has sex and that he has sex in the first place are irrelevant. Therefore, scripture mentions nothing about it. Your verses are irrelevant.

4. I am not splitting hairs because literally and psychologically a gay person is attracted to his own sex because of who he is attracted to (above) Not who he has sex with.

Having sex is a choice. Who you are attracted to (def. above) is not.

5. Therefore, I believe that the bible says Any person who has same-sex sex is sinning. We do not know if they are gay/straight/bi. We just know that by context (all the scriptures you posted) any person who sleeps with the same sex is considered homosexual (the bible does not mention gay people just who the sex of the other person he or she sleeps with).

I am kinda surprised (in my opinion) you don't see the difference between sexual orientation (not in scripture) and having sex (in the bible). These differences are extremely important as it

a. means the bible does not speak of homosexuality (21st century definition)

b. it does not mention a person's sexual orientation

c. it only relates sexual promiscuity (the verses you mention) with a person's sex (male or female) in relation to who he or she has sex with, not his sexual orientation; that's it.

Children, teens, and adults get indoctrinated, hurt, and even killed because christians (generalizing based on their scripture) do not know the difference between the two. The best we can do is educate people.

So splitting hairs (if one likes) is important in this and I hope you understand where I come from and why.
 

Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
This splitting hairs does remove the smell of faeces from the Bible. I posted several verses where the Bible does factually disparage and degrade homosexuals amd calls for their murder.

It's not my fault people are so obsessed with clinging onto this book that wants them dead they try to pretend otherwise and violate Jesus teachings to do so. If it's not good for them to hear (it's not) the best thing to do is leave rather than continuing to follow with something that has demanded your death and pretending it all days otherwise.

This isn't meant to be rude (given online tone), but if you change your perspective and see gay people as attracted to people of the same sex and not people who have same sex sex, you'll see the bible does not mention gay (homosexuals) but any person gay/straight/bi who sleep with the same sex.

You'll also see that all the verses you listed (that I have read repeatedly during my coming out and when I read the bible) have to do with sexual promiscuity "not" sexual orientation. It has nothing to do with the nature of the sex of two people outside of this.

Another note is homosexuality was seen as an action (sodomy) years ago in the US. We know better since 1950s or so. Unless these people like Freud are wrong, we found out sodomy and sexual orientation (heterosexuality/homosexuality/bisexuality) are not related to sodomy in scripture. Unfortunately, the problem is that some christians believe it is and accuse gay people because of it.
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber
I'ma put this in numbers for clarity.

1. I asked you whether or not you believed a gay person is gay because he has sex with someone of his own sex(and I asked whether sexual attraction means someone who sleeps with his or her own sex).

2. I asked because if you do believe sexual orientation means someone who has sex with the same sex (as thousands of christians do), what you say makes sense: a gay person is a sinner because he is gay-the bible says.

3. I do not believe that a gay person is gay because he has sex with his own sex. I believe that a gay person is romantically/physically/mentally attracted to his own sex.

-who he has sex and that he has sex in the first place are irrelevant. Therefore, scripture mentions nothing about it. Your verses are irrelevant.

4. I am not splitting hairs because literally and psychologically a gay person is attracted to his own sex because of who he is attracted to (above) Not who he has sex with.

Having sex is a choice. Who you are attracted to (def. above) is not.

5. Therefore, I believe that the bible says Any person who has same-sex sex is sinning. We do not know if they are gay/straight/bi. We just know that by context (all the scriptures you posted) any person who sleeps with the same sex is considered homosexual (the bible does not mention gay people just who the sex of the other person he or she sleeps with).

I am kinda surprised (in my opinion) you don't see the difference between sexual orientation (not in scripture) and having sex (in the bible). These differences are extremely important as it

a. means the bible does not speak of homosexuality (21st century definition)

b. it does not mention a person's sexual orientation

c. it only relates sexual promiscuity (the verses you mention) with a person's sex (male or female) in relation to who he or she has sex with, not his sexual orientation; that's it.

Children, teens, and adults get indoctrinated, hurt, and even killed because christians (generalizing based on their scripture) do not know the difference between the two. The best we can do is educate people.

So splitting hairs (if one likes) is important in this and I hope you understand where I come from and why.
And I have said none of this matters. It's not important. The Bible demands men who have sex with men be put to death. It says what they do is detestable and an abomination. This--by default--includes gay men. I am aware of these things you speak of. The Bible doesn't care. It doesn't make exceptions. It doesn't say "well, if it's this then this but if it's this then that." No. It says if a man has sex with another man they are both to be murdered, their blood is on their hands. This does includes gay males. It does include bi males. It does include curious males who act on it. Orientation and all that doesn't matter. The edict is kill them all and place the blame and guilt for their murder on them.
 

Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
And I have said none of this matters. It's not important. The Bible demands men who have sex with men be put to death

Yes. This has nothing to do with homosexuals, homosexuality, and gay (and straight) people. So, I agree the bible says people who have sex with other men will be put to death. I disagree that any of the bible verses has anything to do specifically with homosexuals and gay people.

t says what they do is detestable and an abomination. This--by default--includes gay men. I am aware of these things you speak of. The Bible doesn't care. It doesn't make exceptions.

But to separate gay people when we do not know is a problem. The bible can say god kills anyone he wants but the problem is not what the bible says but how christians interpret the bible's definition of homosexuality (and action/abomination) to people who are gay.

The problem is associating sexual promiscuities abomination to gay people "in particular." We don't know the sexual orientation of the people involved; so, it's inappropriate from christians to accentuate any connection between the verses you quoted to gay people. We just don't know.

It doesn't say "well, if it's this then this but if it's this then that." No. It says if a man has sex with another man they are both to be murdered, their blood is on their hands.

This is any person. My problem isn't what it says in the bible, it's christians interpretation that man sleeps with another man=homosexuality thereby homosexuals are abominations.

It's a problem with interpretation and application. When read as is, we just don't know.

This does includes gay males. It does include bi males. It does include curious males who act on it. Orientation and all that doesn't matter. The edict is kill them all and place the blame and guilt for their murder on them.

We don't know. Everyone could be straight for all we know.

Orientation matters when you say "this includes gay males." If you would have said any person, I would agree. But singling out gay males means you're referring to the person in relation and definition to same-sex sex not sexual orientation.

It's not what the bible says that's the problem. It's how christians interpret it.
 

Earthtank

Active Member
And people wonder why traditional churches are losing congregations!!

Catholic church cannot bless same-sex unions, Vatican decrees

I bet there are many catholic families with same-sex relationships in them
Come on Pope - join the 19th Century at least
Why should gay people care? They know its a sin in Christianity yet, they get married anyway. Why does what the pope say really matter? They are going to do what they want anyway
 
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