metis
aged ecumenical anthropologist
What you don't seem to realize is that Islam is far more diverse than what you're posting here. Same with Christianity.The context of the bible passages you quoted shows clearly that it is referring to special moments, but look at the verses of Quran I have quoted, read the context, it seems to be eternal commands.
BTW, the Bible is not at all tolerant of other faiths if one takes what it says literally.