@John D. Brey another thing, clearly at this point you're realizing that there many things in Judaism that you disagree with. Merely based on your last few threads, I can say that there are many more things, you just aren't aware of them. Why would you even want to be Jewish? Non-Jews can get into the world to come along with Jews and need to put in much less work.
I don't question the logic or truth of any of the strange nuances related to Jewish identity. Imo, they're all legitimate and brilliant, as are all the decrees given to Israel.
It's only the interpretation and lack of insight whereby Jews, who don't know the spirit of a given
chok חק, a decree (in this case Jewish identity), make up ways to explain it, them (
chukkim), as though the true meaning, which hasn't been given to them, needn't ever be known, or isn't even real.
Many decrees, like say circumcision, are said to be "signs." And in scripture, a "sign" signifies something it's merely the signifier of. Ritual circumcision is a sign. It signifies something it's not. Ritual circumcision points to a reality that it's merely pointing to. It's not the reality itself. Just the symbol pointing to the reality.
Judaism claims that when Messiah comes, he'll reveal the significance of the decrees and signs that have no known rational meaning prior to his coming.
Unfortunately Messiah is a couple thousand years late. So Judaism has unified the decree and its sign as though they're some strange new reality that doesn't have to be rational or logical (ala your attempt to make rational/logical sense of Jewish identity) though Judaism fails, as they must, because they don't have the "spirit" of Jewish identity required to make the decrees logical or rational.
The "spirit" of the decrees, belongs to Messiah. So in his absence, Jews have taken to treating signs as though they don't signify anything but that Jews are the good guys, so leave it at that: you just can't understand it because you're not Jewish.
Jewish identity is logical, rational, knowable, and undeniable (within a universal logic and rationality). What Jews do when, not knowing the spirit of the identity (because they don't know Messiah), they pretend it's either just inscrutable, or is inscrutable to non-Jews who won't accept it blindly like they will, or worse, that they understand the logic and reason of the sign/decree, when they don't, that's extremely problematic and leads very intelligent and open-minded people to start questioning what's going on in Judaism.
When you pretend that biology and religion can mix, or that it's not mixing it just looks like it is, or that for Jews its not mixing though all other rational thought says it's mixing, that's a farce. And it's a farce based on conflating a sign so that it doesn't have to signify the spirit it's merely designed to signify.
The decrees concerning Jewish identity are the "sign" of a spiritual identity that's not subsumed in the decrees or the flesh and blood of the people who carry the decrees in their flesh and blood. Until the arrival of Messiah, Jews are merely the fleshly guardians of the spirit of a covenant that begins with Messiah. The guardians were not given the meaning of the decrees and signs even though they were the legitimate guardians of those signs and decrees, and are immeasurably faithful to their mission as guardians.
Today we live in a bizarre bifurcated dimension whereby, by the councils of God's own will, for reasons only he fully understands, Messiah came, revealed himself not to the guardians of the covenant, but to the other nations . . . leaving Israel's revelation of Messiah undone for a time and a season and a reason, that I strain with all my might to decipher from the spirit of God and the written text that guards that spirit.
John