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Are love and fear both good for turning to G-d?

John53

I go leaps and bounds
Premium Member
Are love and fear both good for turning to G-d?

People abide the Law in love of their country. Right, please?
People also abide the Law for fear of the fine and punishments prescribed in the law for the crimes. Right, please?
No harm if they do it for love and or fear. Right, please?

If fear is needed to try and make you love then it is a toxic and dangerous relationship.
 

Erebus

Well-Known Member
Are love and fear both good for turning to G-d?

People abide the Law in love of their country. Right, please?
People also abide the Law for fear of the fine and punishments prescribed in the law for the crimes. Right, please?
No harm if they do it for love and or fear. Right, please?

Regards

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[19:97]اِنَّ الَّذِیۡنَ اٰمَنُوۡا وَ عَمِلُوا الصّٰلِحٰتِ سَیَجۡعَلُ لَہُمُ الرَّحۡمٰنُ وُدًّا ﴿۹۷﴾
Those who believe and do good deeds — the Gracious God will create love in their hearts.

The Holy Quran - Chapter: 19: Maryam

[76:11]اِنَّا نَخَافُ مِنۡ رَّبِّنَا یَوۡمًا عَبُوۡسًا قَمۡطَرِیۡرًا ﴿۱۱﴾
‘Verily, we fear from our Lord a frowning and distressful day.’
The Holy Quran - Chapter: 76: Ad-Dahr

If all that matters is that as many people as possible worship God, it's irrelevant whether they do it out of love or fear. The only real consideration then would be which is more effective for converting people. I suspect fear is probably the easier route, though love would be more lasting. I'll leave that one up to the inquisitors.

If the well-being of believers is a consideration, I would argue that worshiping because you fear the consequences of not worshiping probably isn't healthy. That said, if inquisitors are involved then unhealthy worship is probably the better option for you. Being stretched on the rack is terrible for your joints.
 

Fool

ALL in all
Premium Member
Are love and fear both good for turning to G-d?

People abide the Law in love of their country. Right, please?
People also abide the Law for fear of the fine and punishments prescribed in the law for the crimes. Right, please?
No harm if they do it for love and or fear. Right, please?

Regards

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[19:97]اِنَّ الَّذِیۡنَ اٰمَنُوۡا وَ عَمِلُوا الصّٰلِحٰتِ سَیَجۡعَلُ لَہُمُ الرَّحۡمٰنُ وُدًّا ﴿۹۷﴾
Those who believe and do good deeds — the Gracious God will create love in their hearts.

The Holy Quran - Chapter: 19: Maryam

[76:11]اِنَّا نَخَافُ مِنۡ رَّبِّنَا یَوۡمًا عَبُوۡسًا قَمۡطَرِیۡرًا ﴿۱۱﴾
‘Verily, we fear from our Lord a frowning and distressful day.’
The Holy Quran - Chapter: 76: Ad-Dahr
Awe, wonder is the beginning of wisdom. Fear has only to do with loss of something for self. Love has something to do with gain of something for all.
 

dybmh

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I appreciate one's input, however, I don't get one on what I have colored in magenta. Please elaborate it.

Regards
Certainly, in the analogy people are vessels.

At its simplest: per Psalms 138:6, humility creates an environment where G-d is close. A person who is humble is like an empty vessel. Fear, when applied as awe and restraint is a way of cultivating this humility, this emptiness of pride.

But it goes deeper than that, because, your question asks about the situation when a person turns to G-d. When this happens ( maybe in prayer, mediation, or in spontaneous gratitude ) it's natural for a person to feel a sense of accomplishment, pride, and possibly privilege as a result. This fills up a person... the vessel becomes full...the person is not humble, G-d becomes more distant. It's counter productive.

In the circumstance where a person is often turning to G-d in prayer, meditation, etc, without focusing on fear of G-d, awe of creation, restraint from pride, they are more likely to filled up.. filled up already before they even begin praying... and that's a problem. Fear ( awe / restraint ) is the antidote to this condition. Fear when applied as awe or restraint creates the environment where the Divine can be close. It empties the vessel. That's how fear is useful when turning to G-d. It's most useful, IMHO, to counter act the natural tendency away from humility, where a person becomes full of them self, and that often comes hand in hand from turning to G-d if fear is not valued.
 
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paarsurrey

Veteran Member
Awe, wonder is the beginning of wisdom. Fear has only to do with loss of something for self. Love has something to do with gain of something for all.
"Fear has only to do with loss of something for self."

Fear of the enemy is a collective fear of a nation. Right, please?

Regards
 

paarsurrey

Veteran Member
What would be fire only? The symbolic attributes of our nature are the: earth, air, water, fire and the void.
My understanding of life is that G-d has bestowed it to us to inculcate His attributes in our selves. It has become a tribulation for us as we have attraction to goodness as well as to evil. We cannot save ourselves from pull to evil without constant effort and without help from G-d. Right, please?

Regards
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[67:2]تَبٰرَکَ الَّذِیۡ بِیَدِہِ الۡمُلۡکُ ۫ وَ ہُوَ عَلٰی کُلِّ شَیۡءٍ قَدِیۡرُ ۣۙ﴿۲﴾
Blessed is He in Whose hand is the kingdom, and He has power over all things;
[67:3]الَّذِیۡ خَلَقَ الۡمَوۡتَ وَ الۡحَیٰوۃَ لِیَبۡلُوَکُمۡ اَیُّکُمۡ اَحۡسَنُ عَمَلًا ؕ وَ ہُوَ الۡعَزِیۡزُ الۡغَفُوۡرُ ۙ﴿۳﴾
Who has created death and life that He might try you — which of you is best in deeds; and He is the Mighty, the Most Forgiving.
The Holy Quran - Chapter: 67: Al-Mulk
 

whirlingmerc

Well-Known Member
Thanks for expressing one's thoughts.

Regards

It depends as there is an unhealthy kind of fear and a healthy respect of God.

John the apostle says in 1 John 4:18 that "'he who fears is not perfected in love"
but there is a healthy fear of God where one trembles in His presence with awe and respect
so.... depends

A healthy does of fear of God and 'love of God" can go together
Some of the greatest promises are to those who love God, such as Deuteronomy 7:9, Romans 8:28, 1 Corinthians 16:22, Ephesians 6:24

In Naria, Mr Beaver said of "Alsan is not 'safe', but He's good."
 
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shunyadragon

shunyadragon
Premium Member
My understanding of life is that G-d has bestowed it to us to inculcate His attributes in our selves. It has become a tribulation for us as we have attraction to goodness as well as to evil. We cannot save ourselves from pull to evil without constant effort and without help from G-d. Right, please?

Regards
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[67:2]تَبٰرَکَ الَّذِیۡ بِیَدِہِ الۡمُلۡکُ ۫ وَ ہُوَ عَلٰی کُلِّ شَیۡءٍ قَدِیۡرُ ۣۙ﴿۲﴾
Blessed is He in Whose hand is the kingdom, and He has power over all things;
[67:3]الَّذِیۡ خَلَقَ الۡمَوۡتَ وَ الۡحَیٰوۃَ لِیَبۡلُوَکُمۡ اَیُّکُمۡ اَحۡسَنُ عَمَلًا ؕ وَ ہُوَ الۡعَزِیۡزُ الۡغَفُوۡرُ ۙ﴿۳﴾
Who has created death and life that He might try you — which of you is best in deeds; and He is the Mighty, the Most Forgiving.
The Holy Quran - Chapter: 67: Al-Mulk

Yes and no. You are attributing more of an anthropomorphic efforts of what God does. The second is that every different religion and division of the religions assert that there is only one way to this, their way.
 

paarsurrey

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