Riders
Well-Known Member
So I have been having a hard time with men on the dating apps. So many married men and men looking for a one night stands and scam artists.
I've had 2 or 3 nice guys but I usually ruin it by telling too much about myself I have a big mouth.
But I joined a group for my church on social media. I met a guy there hes 50 and single has a girlfriend. But weve been platonic friends for 2 and a half weeks. We talking nothing but health politics and church and spirituality so its been pretty cool.Hes a cool sweet guy.
Who know he may quit chatting with me this weekend. But I do so much better handling conversations with men in my church. Spirituality is juts my thing so I guess its easier for me to keep my big fat mouth shut and talk appropriately around UU men.
Probably with men into meditation too. This guy is not the right guy for me. Hes gorgeous. But I have not chased guys or been obsessive over men in a long time so I have already forgotten about this guy.
I think if nothing else this just proves to me that I need to be back in the UU church. There I can make platonic friends with both men and women, hopefully some nice single men. We can talk about the same thing eating healthy lifestyle church religion and politics.So even if I never hear from this guy again which I doubt but who knows
we may still be talking for awhile, but regardless I do think UU church is the best place to meet men.
I also happen to think for other religions and even athiest groups its best to have a spiritual home ( or athiest)church type group to have a dating pool and look to them, even though there are evil guys there I would think its easier to meet someone nice like this guy I've been talking to the past 2 and a half weeks.
Its a complete relief to be talking to a guy who is a gentleman hasn't said one word about getting physical or tried to convince me I'm falling in love with him long distance so he can scam me. Its a big relief maybe I can make some other guy friends from my group too off social media.
I've had 2 or 3 nice guys but I usually ruin it by telling too much about myself I have a big mouth.
But I joined a group for my church on social media. I met a guy there hes 50 and single has a girlfriend. But weve been platonic friends for 2 and a half weeks. We talking nothing but health politics and church and spirituality so its been pretty cool.Hes a cool sweet guy.
Who know he may quit chatting with me this weekend. But I do so much better handling conversations with men in my church. Spirituality is juts my thing so I guess its easier for me to keep my big fat mouth shut and talk appropriately around UU men.
Probably with men into meditation too. This guy is not the right guy for me. Hes gorgeous. But I have not chased guys or been obsessive over men in a long time so I have already forgotten about this guy.
I think if nothing else this just proves to me that I need to be back in the UU church. There I can make platonic friends with both men and women, hopefully some nice single men. We can talk about the same thing eating healthy lifestyle church religion and politics.So even if I never hear from this guy again which I doubt but who knows
we may still be talking for awhile, but regardless I do think UU church is the best place to meet men.
I also happen to think for other religions and even athiest groups its best to have a spiritual home ( or athiest)church type group to have a dating pool and look to them, even though there are evil guys there I would think its easier to meet someone nice like this guy I've been talking to the past 2 and a half weeks.
Its a complete relief to be talking to a guy who is a gentleman hasn't said one word about getting physical or tried to convince me I'm falling in love with him long distance so he can scam me. Its a big relief maybe I can make some other guy friends from my group too off social media.