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Love versus attachment

Geoff-Allen

Resident megalomaniac
Greetings to you all!

Hope you are feeling well.

Here's an article I found at the Jack Kornfield site.

It discusses the "near enemies" to the qualities of an awakened heart.

You may find it useful otherwise I am wasting my time when I could easily be doing something else more important :)

It helps to distinguish between the four radiant abodes, of the awakened heart —love, compassion, sympathetic joy, and equanimity—and their near enemies. Each of the near enemies can seem to be like these beautiful heart qualities and may even be mistaken for them, but they are not fundamentally alike. The near enemies mistakenly separate us from life and true connection with all things. Instead of the near enemy of attachment, love grows with dedication and care, commitment and courage. This is genuine love. Real compassion connects, rather than its near enemy, pity, which separates. Shared joy connects, rather than jealousy, which separates. And equanimity brings peace to all, rather than its near enemy, indifference, which disconnects us.

For the full article & site -

https://jackkornfield.com/love-vs-attachment/

Enjoy!
 

crossfire

LHP Mercuræn Feminist Heretic ☿
Premium Member
Greetings to you all!

Hope you are feeling well.

Here's an article I found at the Jack Kornfield site.

It discusses the "near enemies" to the qualities of an awakened heart.

You may find it useful otherwise I am wasting my time when I could easily be doing something else more important :)

It helps to distinguish between the four radiant abodes, of the awakened heart —love, compassion, sympathetic joy, and equanimity—and their near enemies. Each of the near enemies can seem to be like these beautiful heart qualities and may even be mistaken for them, but they are not fundamentally alike. The near enemies mistakenly separate us from life and true connection with all things. Instead of the near enemy of attachment, love grows with dedication and care, commitment and courage. This is genuine love. Real compassion connects, rather than its near enemy, pity, which separates. Shared joy connects, rather than jealousy, which separates. And equanimity brings peace to all, rather than its near enemy, indifference, which disconnects us.

For the full article & site -

https://jackkornfield.com/love-vs-attachment/

Enjoy!
I don't agree with Jack's assessment and his loose use of terms. Metta's near enemy is selfish affection, which is a little different than Upadana (attachment.) Jealousy is the far enemy of mudita, rather than its near enemy of exuberance. The good thing about the article is that it does make one think and contemplate. :)
 
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