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God's Position On Homosexual Sex

Road Warrior

Seeking the middle path..
No, I'll tell him I think he's vile.

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$50 says God doesn't care. Why would an all powerful, all knowing, omnipresent power care about the uninformed, very limited thoughts of a single mortal creature in a Universe of untold Trillions of such creatures?
 

Road Warrior

Seeking the middle path..
is certainly not going to condemn an act of nature

It not an act of nature and before you say it happens in nature we can choose to have sex or not
Homosexuality is a fact of nature. If you don't know that, then perhaps you should read a few books on the subject or attend a few classes on it.

That's my point. We choose what we do, but not who we love. Do you understand this difference?
 

Politesse

Amor Vincit Omnia
Heterosexuals don't choose to be heterosexual, they just are.
Homosexuals don't choose to be homosexuals, they just are.
I'm not sure I quite agree with this. We really don't know a lot about the matter, but people certainly do "choose" whether to live as a homosexual or not. It is incredibly damaging to live in the closet your whole life, and it is in my opinion a great moral injustice to ask them to, but you're painting things as more black-and-white than they really are. Most of us sit somewhere along a general spectrum of sexual and gender expression that one way or another doesn't match up to the behavioral expectations of others in our society. The question is really what to do about those whose behavior is "deviant" enough to warrant notice. In my opinion, the clear answer that the Gospels suggest to that question is "invite them over for dinner and treat them with kindness", no matter what judgements you might be tempted to make about their different choices. For you yourself will one day be judged by the same measure and come up short. Lead with mercy, if mercy is what you would plead for yourself at that time.

If heterosexuals fornicate they've committed a sin
If homosexuals fornicate they've committed a sin
Maybe. Some complications here, as porneia (fornication) doesn't really mean quite the same thing as sin. But okay, let's accept this as provisionally valid. It still doesn't open the door to unchecked abuse of those who commit sins.
* 1 Corinthians 7:2
"But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband."
Wouldn't it make sense, then, to allow gays to marry for the exact same reason that men and women are permitted to marry? There was no such institution in Paul's time, and the State would have violently put it down if so; homosexual unions were commonplace in 1st c. Greco-Roman society, but always extramarital and often involuntary in character, conditions upon which Paul has elsewhere made his opinion quite clear. Paul is not my God and I wouldn't necessarily follow his moral instructions anyway, but in this case we don't even know what he would think of gay marriages were he to be transported to our time, and asked. Culture shock, no doubt. But it may be that upon reflection our current social practices would solve what in his mind is the real problem: sexual immorality, not sexual orientation, a concept that would have been quite foreign to someone in whose time nearly all men of a certain social class both married women (considered property, and sex with them a civic duty) and had occasional sex with other men (considered a matter of social bonding and strengthening of the polis).


**Leviticus 20:13,
"If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltness is upon them."
I don't take anyone seriously if they pick and choose which Levitical laws to follow; anyone who condemns gays but eats shrimp is a hypocrite. If you want to be logically consistent, we're either bound to the Torah and its precepts or not. And Paul, on whose writings you have based the rest of your argument, certainly rejects this view. When he opines on moral matters, he never cites the Law, and he condemns those who try to place others under it. Rather, he seems to see morality as a question of conscience and purity.

"Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 10 nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the kingdom of God."

"Shall not inherit the Kingdom of God", in your opinion, means being condemned to Hell? I don't think Paul actually believed in Hell; he certainly never mentioned it in his letters, and that seems like a pretty significant omission if that was among his beliefs. Punishment for misdeeds, yes, but Paul was Jewish, not a modern evangelical Christian. Punishment was an immediate thing that afflicted you in your lifetime, in both ancient and modern Jewish thought. So it's not like we're in this Persian system of either Heaven and Hell in Paul's letters. It's more like he didn't expect those he disagreed with to be given special positions in the end times, like he and his buddies thought they were going to receive. Paul held himself and others to impossible moral standards, and harshly condemned those he considered to fall short of them, but he wasn't a systematic theologian and I don't think he was positing a coherent cosmology.
 

shmogie

Well-Known Member
In response to a statement made yesterday about the plight of those who have homosexual sex, I posted the following, and believe it's worthy of further discussion/debate.


Heterosexuals don't choose to be heterosexual, they just are.
Homosexuals don't choose to be homosexuals, they just are.

If heterosexuals fornicate they've committed a sin
If homosexuals fornicate they've committed a sin

Because heterosexuals find it almost impossible not to fornicate, god created marriage so they could have sex with no repercussions. *
Because homosexuals find it almost impossible not to fornicate, god said, "Tough nuts!" Keep your zipper up or go to Hell. **


As I see it, this is god's position to a T, but hardly complementary. In fact, I regard it as inexcusably vile.

Agree? Good!

Disagree? Why?




* 1 Corinthians 7:2
"But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband."

**Leviticus 20:13,

"If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltness is upon them."
1 Corinthians 6:9-10,
"Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 10 nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the kingdom of God."


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Here we go, again.

Your base assumption that homosexuals are born, not made has absolutely no scientific evidence to support it.

There is no homosexual gene, and physiological attempts to explain it, i.e. brain size, mothers hormones during gestation. etc., etc., etc., etc. are non conclusive.

Until the social forces became too great to buck, homosexuality was considered a psychological condition, which it obviously is. Since the majority is the norm, dare I say it is abnormal..

So you worry about Gods view of homosexuals. Don´t worry, be happy ! No one is forcing anyone to give up anything.

No one is compelled to be a Christian, they CHOOSE to be one. The NT summation of the matter is that those non Christian homosexuals are free to do whatever they choose, and we have no business judging them.

The matter is homosexuals IN THE CHURCH. We all are sinners, and my sins are no better than the sin of homosexuality. However, no one can be in the Church who does not repent of their sin ( which means turn away from) in a sincere manner and attempt to eliminate the sin in our lives. It ain´t easy.

A person who cherishes sin, indulges in it with no remorse cannot be a member of the Church, unless, of course, it is one of those churches that doesn´t care whether the Bible says , itś just love man, just love, do whatever you want you are in.

Unfortunately for that approach, Christ used the word repent more than He used the word love.

So, it is simple, homosexuals cannot be members of the church.

Some are, I have known them, they choose to remain celibate because the Church is the most important thing to them. They are happy members of the Church and lovingly accepted.

So, contrary to the urban legends of Christian hit squads on search and destroy missions for homosexuals, the issue is Church membership, period.

This is the Biblical/NT issue.
 

shmogie

Well-Known Member
$50 says God doesn't care. Why would an all powerful, all knowing, omnipresent power care about the uninformed, very limited thoughts of a single mortal creature in a Universe of untold Trillions of such creatures?
Because He does care.
 

shmogie

Well-Known Member
As I see it, this is god's position to a T, but hardly complementary. In fact, I regard it as inexcusably vile.

Why what's wrong with God wanting a long and happy life for people?
This is such a ludicrous post. Necrophiliacs want to be happy, they do no harm to dead people. Bodies are sold to be cut to pieces, why can´t a necrophiliac buy one too, to cherish and love ?

God must be A OK with this because the dude is happy.
 

Subduction Zone

Veteran Member
Here we go, again.

Your base assumption that homosexuals are born, not made has absolutely no scientific evidence to support it.

There is no homosexual gene, and physiological attempts to explain it, i.e. brain size, mothers hormones during gestation. etc., etc., etc., etc. are non conclusive.

Until the social forces became too great to buck, homosexuality was considered a psychological condition, which it obviously is. Since the majority is the norm, dare I say it is abnormal..

So you worry about Gods view of homosexuals. Don´t worry, be happy ! No one is forcing anyone to give up anything.

No one is compelled to be a Christian, they CHOOSE to be one. The NT summation of the matter is that those non Christian homosexuals are free to do whatever they choose, and we have no business judging them.

The matter is homosexuals IN THE CHURCH. We all are sinners, and my sins are no better than the sin of homosexuality. However, no one can be in the Church who does not repent of their sin ( which means turn away from) in a sincere manner and attempt to eliminate the sin in our lives. It ain´t easy.

A person who cherishes sin, indulges in it with no remorse cannot be a member of the Church, unless, of course, it is one of those churches that doesn´t care whether the Bible says , itś just love man, just love, do whatever you want you are in.

Unfortunately for that approach, Christ used the word repent more than He used the word love.

So, it is simple, homosexuals cannot be members of the church.

Some are, I have known them, they choose to remain celibate because the Church is the most important thing to them. They are happy members of the Church and lovingly accepted.

So, contrary to the urban legends of Christian hit squads on search and destroy missions for homosexuals, the issue is Church membership, period.

This is the Biblical/NT issue.
And @shmogie once again demonstrates that he does not understand the concept of scientific evidence:

Cross-Cultural Evidence for the Genetics of Homosexuality
https://www.sciencemag.org/news/2018/10/giant-study-links-dna-variants-same-sex-behavior
What do the new ‘gay genes’ tell us about sexual orientation?

I could keep going but it probably would not do any good.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
Until the social forces became too great to buck, homosexuality was considered a psychological condition, which it obviously is. Since the majority is the norm, dare I say it is abnormal
Social mores had nothing to do with it. The DSM doesn’t pander to social convention.

Why is it “obvious?” It’s not obvious to the mental health community.

So, the majority is the norm? I’ll be sure that all the blacks, Latinos, Natives, Buddhists and Trump voters know that you think they’re abnormal.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
This is such a ludicrous post. Necrophiliacs want to be happy, they do no harm to dead people. Bodies are sold to be cut to pieces, why can´t a necrophiliac buy one too, to cherish and love ?

God must be A OK with this because the dude is happy.
Necrophilia is a mental disorder. Homosexuality is not.
 

Astosolece

Member
Really, you think so ? When your time to be judged comes, will God do it or a jury of your peers ? You will be judged.
I spent the majority of my life being judged by other people, and even allowing significantly lesser people to have their say and hold contempt over me for any number of things that they felt gave them superiority over myself. Thankfully, I finally grew up and realized that people do this specifically because they do feel less than. Peoples judgement over others is a negative reflection of their own inner-self. And as long as we’re on the subject, what ever happened to “Judge not lest ye be judged”?
 

Evangelicalhumanist

"Truth" isn't a thing...
Premium Member
Here we go, again.

Your base assumption that homosexuals are born, not made has absolutely no scientific evidence to support it.

There is no homosexual gene, and physiological attempts to explain it, i.e. brain size, mothers hormones during gestation. etc., etc., etc., etc. are non conclusive.

Until the social forces became too great to buck, homosexuality was considered a psychological condition, which it obviously is. Since the majority is the norm, dare I say it is abnormal..

So you worry about Gods view of homosexuals. Don´t worry, be happy ! No one is forcing anyone to give up anything.

No one is compelled to be a Christian, they CHOOSE to be one. The NT summation of the matter is that those non Christian homosexuals are free to do whatever they choose, and we have no business judging them.

The matter is homosexuals IN THE CHURCH. We all are sinners, and my sins are no better than the sin of homosexuality. However, no one can be in the Church who does not repent of their sin ( which means turn away from) in a sincere manner and attempt to eliminate the sin in our lives. It ain´t easy.

A person who cherishes sin, indulges in it with no remorse cannot be a member of the Church, unless, of course, it is one of those churches that doesn´t care whether the Bible says , itś just love man, just love, do whatever you want you are in.

Unfortunately for that approach, Christ used the word repent more than He used the word love.

So, it is simple, homosexuals cannot be members of the church.

Some are, I have known them, they choose to remain celibate because the Church is the most important thing to them. They are happy members of the Church and lovingly accepted.

So, contrary to the urban legends of Christian hit squads on search and destroy missions for homosexuals, the issue is Church membership, period.

This is the Biblical/NT issue.
You are wrong about so many things, but oddly, the only thing in this screed that I care that you're wrong about is this: "We all are sinners, and my sins are no better than the sin of homosexuality. However, no one can be in the Church who does not repent of their sin..." Those are your words. And while you might be a sinner (and seem to relish saying so over and over and over), I am not. I make the usual human mistakes, but I regret them when I need to, try to repair the damage as I may, but refuse to wallow in what Christians seem to love conceiving as their inherent awfulness.

Maybe they are all awful, but not being a Christian I wouldn't know. But I am not. And therefore, I would certainly not relish the idea of belonging to a group of such people. I prefer to associate with better, and more honest, types.
 

Darkforbid

Well-Known Member
Homosexuality is a fact of nature. If you don't know that, then perhaps you should read a few books on the subject or attend a few classes on it.

That's my point. We choose what we do, but not who we love. Do you understand this difference?
Homosexuality is a fact of nature.

It may well happen in nature but how does that make right and in you words something God would not dislike?

Sex by force happens in nature

Killing rivals happens in nature

Violence happens in nature

Filicide happens in nature

Because something happens in nature does not make moral or acceptable

We choose what we do, but not who we love.

Of course we do, you chose to start a relationship with someone if that end up in a loving relationship or not however may not be a choice

then perhaps you should read a few books on the subject or attend a few classes on it.

I wouldn't start going down that line with dude
 

Evangelicalhumanist

"Truth" isn't a thing...
Premium Member
I spent the majority of my life being judged by other people, and even allowing significantly lesser people to have their say and hold contempt over me for any number of things that they felt gave them superiority over myself. Thankfully, I finally grew up and realized that people do this specifically because they do feel less than. Peoples judgement over others is a negative reflection of their own inner-self. And as long as we’re on the subject, what ever happened to “Judge not lest ye be judged”?
"Judge not lest ye be judged" is pure jargon to the regular Christian. Nice cadence, but no idea what it means.
 

Skwim

Veteran Member
Like I think others were trying to state, it could be Bible literalism and Christian Fundamentalism, rather than God.
Then one is going to have to choose when god is speaking and when the literati among sheep herders is speaking.

I, for one, would guess that when the Bible says "God said . . . ." it means that it was god who was speaking, as in:

Leviticus 18:1, 22
18 The Lord said to Moses, . . . 22 “Men, you must not have sexual relations with another man as with a woman. That is a terrible sin!

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sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
It may well happen in nature but how does that make right and in you words something God would not dislike?

Sex by force happens in nature

Killing rivals happens in nature

Violence happens in nature


Filicide happens in nature

Because something happens in nature does not make moral or acceptable
The examples are all actions, not identities and orientations.

Fail.

Of course we do, you chose to start a relationship with someone if that end up in a loving relationship or not however may not be a choice
But you don’t choose which sex you’re attracted to.

Fail.

I wouldn't start going down that line with dude
Why not?
 
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