If you want to discuss it further, I am happy to do so. Please send me a PM. I think you are a good person. But I do think your actions are counter productive for what you want to accomplish. It really has nothing to do with what your purpose is. I may or may not agree with it at all. But if I can help you, I am at your service.
and it takes wisdom to figure out what really works, and that's also individualized.
I think you nailed it, Vinayaka.
Love for One is natural for almost any person. Either loving themselves or loving their preferred god(s) and/or prophet(s).
Love for all, begins with wanting to nurture someone else in harmony with that other person's priorities and preferences. And that takes wisdom and individual attention. You said it so well.
If you take a look at my offer to Tony, it was sincere. I am offering to help him, because I do think he is a good person.
But it is also an example of what I think "love for all" looks like in action.
It is a desire to nurture ( "if I can help you, I am at your service" ) that is in harmony with the other person's priorities and preferences ( "It really has nothing to do with what your purpose is. I may or may not agree with it at all." )
It is , as you said, individualized ( "If you want to discuss it further, I am happy to do so. Please send me a PM." ) And I didn't send quotes which may have been counter-productive. This was my attempt at wisdom.
I am offering assistance, but I am not pushing it on him. I am not trying to change him. I am trying to offer help in the form of intellectual, emotional, spiritual support only if it is harmonious with Tony's priorities and preferences. But if it is not wanted, I will try not to be pushy. Emphasis on **try**. Like I said. I am very new to this.
That is my version of Love for All demonstrated in my offer to help Tony including the elements you spoke about. I thank you.