In regards those who try out aspects of different faiths like trying on different clothes, that’s simply part of the journey for many Westerners.
I agree, in the beginning. But after awhile for me it has to be ... make up your mind already, choose a path, and follow it with all your heart. The same thing applies to the sects and sampradayas within Hinduism. Most Gurus would never think of 'stealing devotees' from other Gurus or sects. Most parallel the Dalai Lama ... stick to your own sect/Guru/sampradaya and do that well.