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Sex strike

Enoch07

It's all a sick freaking joke.
Premium Member
You were the one pumping out abuse to non americans. You dont like what you dish out then dont dish it out

To be fair, you started it. Post #3 Now this is irony.

And what'll happen to all those right wing users of liberal prostitutes. Damn man, they'll have to go home to their wives

So perhaps if you don't like being disrespected you take your sassy pants off before making a post? :p
 

ChristineM

"Be strong", I whispered to my coffee.
Premium Member
To be fair, you started it. Post #3 Now this is irony.



So perhaps if you don't like being disrespected you take your sassy pants off before making a post? :p

Post 3 was a humerous response to your obnoxious and deliberate abuse of liberal women and pro choice supporters in post 1.

When you disrespect people you get what you post.

Now lets see you try and make something up before post 1. Or you can accept responsibility for your own words. After all, as you are so fond of reminding... It is your OP
 

Enoch07

It's all a sick freaking joke.
Premium Member
Post 3 was a humerous response to your obnoxious and deliberate abuse of liberal women and pro choice supporters in post 1.

Abuse?

Criticism is not abuse.

Cheeky, snarky, or biting criticism for sure.

But far from abuse.

#nosassypants
 

ChristineM

"Be strong", I whispered to my coffee.
Premium Member
Not griping, was just asking.:)

A week or so ago i wiped my ignore list clean, it was short, only 5 names. It seems there was a good reason you were on that list.

You have the honour of being the first on the new list?
 

Enoch07

It's all a sick freaking joke.
Premium Member
A week or so ago i wiped my ignore list clean, it was short, only 5 names. It seems there was a good reason you were on that list.

You have the honour of being the first on the new list?

That's up to you. I try to answer/address any respectful sincere questions/topics, respectfully and sincerely. If you find that I am abusive then that only means one thing.
 

Stevicus

Veteran Member
Staff member
Premium Member
While watching this thread go down in flames, a few thoughts came to mind about the subject matter.

Someone upthread posted an article saying that overall, people are having less sex than they used to. Concurrently, there have been numerous observations about the growing incivility and divisions within society.

So I wonder: Could the sex strike be taking its toll?

I look back on earlier eras, such as during the 60s and 70s when there were sharp disputes and divisions within the country. But there was an attitude of free love and a certain level of hedonism which may have tempered and moderated a lot of the harsher sentiments and extremist views.

A lot of the enmities of the era subsided and went dormant, as if people just didn't want to fight anymore and preferred to just get naked and jump in the hot tub together.

They used to say that Americans were terribly uptight about sex and that we should eschew the old-fashioned attitudes of middle class morality. So, there were active efforts to move us away from that, and yet, when looking at how things are nowadays, it's almost as if we're going backwards. The divisions still exist, and we're still at each other's throats.
 

Shiranui117

Pronounced Shee-ra-noo-ee
Premium Member
While watching this thread go down in flames, a few thoughts came to mind about the subject matter.

Someone upthread posted an article saying that overall, people are having less sex than they used to. Concurrently, there have been numerous observations about the growing incivility and divisions within society.

So I wonder: Could the sex strike be taking its toll?

I look back on earlier eras, such as during the 60s and 70s when there were sharp disputes and divisions within the country. But there was an attitude of free love and a certain level of hedonism which may have tempered and moderated a lot of the harsher sentiments and extremist views.

A lot of the enmities of the era subsided and went dormant, as if people just didn't want to fight anymore and preferred to just get naked and jump in the hot tub together.

They used to say that Americans were terribly uptight about sex and that we should eschew the old-fashioned attitudes of middle class morality. So, there were active efforts to move us away from that, and yet, when looking at how things are nowadays, it's almost as if we're going backwards. The divisions still exist, and we're still at each other's throats.
I think the lack of sex is symptomatic of our society going downhill, rather than the other way around. Millennial men are particularly hard-hit by the drop-off in sex; no woman wants to have sex with a young man working a crappy job who still has tens of thousands of student loan debt to pay off. And very few men feel ready or safe to have sex when the idea has been reinforced over and over again that any show of authentic manliness or chivalry is "toxic masculinity", and that any attempt to flirt with a girl or show interest in her can potentially get him arrested for sexual harrassment.
 

Stevicus

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Staff member
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I think the lack of sex is symptomatic of our society going downhill, rather than the other way around. Millennial men are particularly hard-hit by the drop-off in sex; no woman wants to have sex with a young man working a crappy job who still has tens of thousands of student loan debt to pay off. And very few men feel ready or safe to have sex when the idea has been reinforced over and over again that any show of authentic manliness or chivalry is "toxic masculinity", and that any attempt to flirt with a girl or show interest in her can potentially get him arrested for sexual harrassment.

Whatever happened to "all you need is love"?
 

It Aint Necessarily So

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Premium Member
People have no need or reason to conform to your expectations for their sexual behavior.

Never said they should be forced. But it wouldn't hurt them of they tried it.

Abstinence hurt me and my future family. I was a new, young Christian in the Army, had met a Christian girl, fell in love, thought I felt the Lord telling me to marry her - I had an epiphany one afternoon on the barracks steps with her in the presence of crepuscular sunbeams beaming down on us - proposed having never had sexual relations, got married, and finally tested the goods. I don't want to be unkind here, but there was never any hope of a mutually satisfying sexual relationship. She was terrified of sex and said it hurt her. She became tense and rigid.

Unfortunately, we had two children before I realized that I just couldn't live like that, and got a divorce. I was just too young to know better.

Looking back, I can now see what a bad idea abstinence was. Toward what purpose? To please God? What god? Where is this god? Why would a god care anyway?

And did that outcome please anybody?

This is why I am such a huge critic of faith-based thought, at least the kind that affects decision making. It fine if you believe that angels exist on faith, but if you believe that you can drive recklessly because they will protect you, now you're at risk, just as I was when I let my faith affect my decision making.

There is no virtue in celibacy or abstinence. Choose them if you like, but your expectation that others should conform to your values is irrelevant to them if they don't hold conservative Christian values.

Sure there is. Otherwise you wouldn't despise it.

Nope. There is no virtue in either celibacy or abstinence. There are no benefits for a person able to enjoy an active sex life without undue complications sufficient to justify an irrational practice that simply denies one physical pleasure and a spiritual connection. Toward what purpose? How would my life have been better is I adhered to Christian dogma? I just showed you how it made it worse. Plus, there are additional good reasons to have an active sexual life if one so desires - for both mental and physical health.

This is the problem with believing without sufficient reason. I believed what my Bible and preacher were telling me because I believed a god existed and wanted me to do the things I was being instructed to do, there being no other reason to do them. When I returned to atheism, I discarded my faith-based beliefs.

Why deny yourself so many pleasant experiences when they can be enjoyed without harm or excessive risk?

Because that is discipline. If you only denied yourself when there was excessive risk or harm, then that's not discipline that's just being prudent. Discipline is practicing restraint when there is no real reason to, so that when there is a reason to you are prepared.

If that is all that you mean by discipline - depriving yourself to no benefit - then that is not a virtue either.

The value of discipline is to be able to perform a task that you are averse to, but want to accomplish anyway. Practicing denying oneself the benefits of a healthy sex life is of no value.

When I was in medical practice, I used to encounter patients in pain that refused adequate analgesia despite experiencing considerable suffering. They would rather suffer through a migraine headache, for example, without help than to take a medication that could ease the suffering.

Sometimes, it was for religious reasons, especially hospice patients getting ready, they thought, to meet their maker, a maker that wanted them to suffer just as Jesus suffered just prior to His death.

Sometimes, people were just afraid of medication.

But sometimes, it was for no purpose other than to prove to themselves how much pain they could will themselves to endure undertreated. I used to think to myself, how pointless is this? Now they can put on his tombstone that he only took 700 Excedrins in a lifetime when 3000 would have benefited him more. Congratulations on pointless discipline. .

And of course, disciplining yourself to refuse safe, legal sex doesn't prepare you for any other task that requires discipline as you suggest, such as controlling outbursts of rage, or not procrastinating. Those are tasks that are worth accomplishing - behaviors worth controlling - and every success reinforces the good habit. Your sexual abstinence discipline probably won't help you in disciplining any other aspect of your life such as these, as you imply.

With time, the urge to rage or procrastinate diminishes form relative disuse. This is authentic discipline, and it has a purpose unlike seeing how long you can hold your hand over a flame or how many migraines you can endure needlessly untreated.

Nature is greater than you or I my friend.

Sometimes, nature doesn't make the best decisions. For example, it seems to want my home to be a mess and in disrepair. If we stop cleaning it and performing upkeep, things get dirty and cease working for good.

So, we veto nature in that area and work against its tendencies. In fact, nature doesn't seem to care if we have a home, which is why they are built by human beings. Likewise with clothes.

We transcend nature and choose intelligent design instead, especially when it comes to reproduction.

Criticism is not abuse.

This thread was started by you as a snarky attack on liberals. Constructive criticism is not abuse, but this is not constructive criticism. This is just you telling liberals how much you dislike them.
 

It Aint Necessarily So

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Ergo Abortion is just a form of birth control for the irresponsible and unaware.

Yes, in a sense, but not just for the irresponsible and unaware. It's for any pregnant female seeking a safe, legal abortion for any reason. Maybe his condom broke, or she was raped by her uncle, or her parents armed her with nothing better than an abstinence-only type of sex education. You might as well start discussing baby names when you take that last approach with your daughters, as Sarah Palin learned. What did they name that baby? Tripp?

Taxpayers must pay the bills for people's idea of fun

Money well spent. If the mother doesn't want this baby born, forcing her to deliver it seems like a bad idea. Every abortion prevented is another unwanted baby born into the world.

Unfunding abortion and agencies like Planned Parenthood because of the dominant religion's beliefs is a particularly poor idea for multiple reasons, many already given, not the least of which is allowing the American church to impose its will on all Americans, including those that do not share its values, by using the power of government to essentially turn these women into incubators for the church.

For me, opposing that is a no-brainer. It's not about whether any given woman should get an abortion or not, nor what her reasons are. It's about who gets to make the decision - the private citizen, or the church and state.

And if its money you're concerned about, keep in mind that if we allow pregnant teens to get abortions and continue their educations rather than dropping out to wait tables and raise babies, you'll get your taxes back in spades when she goes on to become a middle class professional rather than an unskilled, uneducated, single mother living in poverty.

Ergo they were aware of what sex can result in so they are responsible for covering the cost of their acts, no one else.

Those are your values, but not mine. If public dollars prevent unwanted babies from being born, I'll gladly chip in to support the cost.

I'd also be willing to underwrite a share of her college tuition and her first small business start-up loan. Developing human potential and expanding opportunity for all are prominent liberal and humanist values.

I just pointed out you have conceded abortion is just a form of BC for a lot stupid people that act irresponsible

Conceded? I freely admit it. Abortion is a form of birth control. That's its purpose. That's why abortions are done - to prevent an unwanted birth. That's why we want to keep it a safe and legal option. American girls and women including Christian ones will continue having abortions whether they are recriminalized in America or not. Some will go to other countries, some will visit underground abortion clinics.
 
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oldbadger

Skanky Old Mongrel!
Alyssa Milano's sex strike is misguided. Here's what actually might work (opinion) - CNN

Hmmmm so she's encouraging women to not have sex to negate the risk of pregnancy?

Congratulations, you just backdoored your way into sexual morality! :D You shouldn't be having sex with anyone, your not prepared to have a child with!

I hope all liberal women join Alyssa Milano and support her sex strike. She might make moral people out of pro-choice supporters after all! :D
My wife could not have children.
It would have been sad for her and me if you ruled the World. Glad you don't!
:D
 

Enoch07

It's all a sick freaking joke.
Premium Member
He is indicating that if you ruled the world, sex would only be for procreation. Since she could not have children, you would be barring her from the pleasures and expression of sex.

You're welcome.

I know, I also never said it should be only for procreation. Only that its primary purpose is procreation.

Need some more intelligent people on that are able to keep up.
 

Enoch07

It's all a sick freaking joke.
Premium Member
What rot
Who said so.

sex is sex. Most people enjoy taking part, but it is not compulsory. Nor is having children.

Biology says so. The primary purpose you have sexual organs and a reproductive system, is to reproduce. Fun is secondary.
 

fantome profane

Anti-Woke = Anti-Justice
Premium Member
Biology says so. The primary purpose you have sexual organs and a reproductive system, is to reproduce. Fun is secondary.
Biology doesn’t “say” anything. Purpose is the invention of a sentient mind. Biology has function, not purpose.

We decide the purpose ourselves.
 
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