Now..... let us look at the junk that you write.
Let's just see some more.........
Yeah.............. right........... now let's see the dreadful results which can happen after a terrifying incident...
The above a short piece of a post, showing that long after your experience of a terrifying incident in a lakeside property you still are disabled by the dreadful mental disorder of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. I know a bit about this condition as well.
When I trained commercial detectives to protect property and confront thieves I had to prepare them to carry out their duties in LEGAL and PHYSICAL SAFETY. Having been attacked more times than I can now remember I was very aware of the LEGAL and PHYSICAL risks of any mistakes.
And so I became a specialist in safety and security, both inside and outside businesses, stores and other properties. I still do try to make suggestions to folks in the hope that even a single sentence might help to protect them from the dreadful experience of an attack and any condition like PTSD.
And then folks like you call such advice 'blaming the victim'. Such accusations are pitiful....... you should know better than to criticise folks who try to deter such experiences because you know what the results of an easily accessible property can be.
.... for shame?
I dont call advice "blaming the victim",
and if shame is due, that phoniness can
be added to your general air of blame.
Clearly a most different pov.
I may well be hypersensitive to signs
of victim-blaming. It does not mean
it is not there, it may mean I am real
good at seeing it.
"Blame the victim" is still the most common
response to sexual assault.
Your "secure the property" would be terrif, if
there had been a fence and locked gate, no access
by water, incursion sensors, and finally a panic
room. I dont blame you for advice, this is just
you trying trying to flip it back on me, when
I did complain about you blaming me- right from
the first, with no idea of circumstances.
I could have stood out there with a shot gun
and driven the guy away. Dived in the lake and
swum away.
Of course, one would seem a bit weird, behaving
so with a friendly neighbour. Or so he presented
as being.
It was not even my property!! I am to secure
someone elses land? Be even more hypervigilant
than I am now, and refuse to go anywhere not
utterly secure?
Dont answer to those. Enough from you is enough.
And we have enough other experts in other things,
who cannot possibly ever be mistaken either.