I just had some random thoughts about the general concept of forgiveness as it relates to religion and even in some secular matters.
Oftentimes, I hear religious people talk about how God forgives sins of those who ask for forgiveness and/or atone for their sins. Sometimes it might even involve some form of penance. I've also heard that there is an expectation that we humans should also forgive others who sin or trespass against us, although this may or may not involve any form of atonement or even anyone actually asking for forgiveness.
If someone commits a wrong against you, does religion still require you to forgive them, even if they don't ask for forgiveness or make any attempt at atonement? If someone does ask for forgiveness, is forgiveness required? Would it be a sin to not forgive someone who asks for forgiveness? (I've heard some people say things like "May God forgive you, because I can't.")
If someone commits a sin (or a crime), is it enough to say "I'm sorry I did it and I promise never to do it again"? If it's not enough, how does one decide what would be enough penance (or sentence) to properly atone for the sin (or crime)?
I think John Wayne once said "Never apologize, it's a sign of weakness," while others might argue that forgiveness can also be seen as weakness.
What are your thoughts on the subject?
Oftentimes, I hear religious people talk about how God forgives sins of those who ask for forgiveness and/or atone for their sins. Sometimes it might even involve some form of penance. I've also heard that there is an expectation that we humans should also forgive others who sin or trespass against us, although this may or may not involve any form of atonement or even anyone actually asking for forgiveness.
If someone commits a wrong against you, does religion still require you to forgive them, even if they don't ask for forgiveness or make any attempt at atonement? If someone does ask for forgiveness, is forgiveness required? Would it be a sin to not forgive someone who asks for forgiveness? (I've heard some people say things like "May God forgive you, because I can't.")
If someone commits a sin (or a crime), is it enough to say "I'm sorry I did it and I promise never to do it again"? If it's not enough, how does one decide what would be enough penance (or sentence) to properly atone for the sin (or crime)?
I think John Wayne once said "Never apologize, it's a sign of weakness," while others might argue that forgiveness can also be seen as weakness.
What are your thoughts on the subject?