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Circumcision

Jaymes

The cake is a lie
How is this brutal baby-mutilation legal and normally practiced in any first world country? Why? What makes people think this is not only normal, but acceptable?
 

meogi

Well-Known Member
It's not normal, but it is acceptable... mainly because it isn't brutal baby-mutilation. I was circumcised after I was born, I don't seem to remember it - and I'm kinda glad I don't have the extra skin hanging around.

My jewish friend put it this way once: Hey, I was drunk at 7 days old. And I cried all the time then anyway, so it didn't matter much to me.

Why do you think it's such a horrible thing?
 

Lintu

Active Member
I have heard the word "mutilation" sometimes defined as any act to alter someone's body for no good reason without their consent. To me, circumcision is mutilation, because I do not believe there's a good reason for it (I am also not Jewish.) I also have a lot of problems with the reasons that non-Jews in the US picked up the trend: The man who invented Corn Flakes, Dr. John Harvey Kellogg, said:

"A remedy for masturbation which is almost always successful in small boys is circumcision," he wrote. "The operation should be performed by a surgeon without administering an anesthetic, as the brief pain attending the operation will have a salutary effect upon the mind, especially if it be connected with the idea of punishment. In females, the author has found the application of pure carbolic acid to the clitoris an excellent means of allaying the abnormal excitement."
Now clearly, people don't think like this today, but I just don't like the history behind its popularity. This was the common idea in the early 1900s. By the 50s or so, it had become normal, and parents didn't want their children to be different.

Furthermore, most of the people I've known who have watched a circumcision were pretty upset by it and chose not to do it again with a second child. So, I'm not going to do it to my sons, if I have them.
 

jewscout

Religious Zionist
Male circumcision is not mutilation. I was circumcised and all my parts work fine without any complication. Plus if you choose to not circumcise your son you must teach them how to properly clean themselves because if you don't infection could set in (i'm no medical doctor but i'm pretty sure that could happen and that is a crappy place to have an infection!)
There is nothing mutilating about Male circumcision (in fact it makes it look bigger;) )

If you want to put mutilation and circumcision in the same sentence then talk about FEMALE circumcision.
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Lintu

Active Member
jewscout said:
Plus if you choose to not circumcise your son you must teach them how to properly clean themselves because if you don't infection could set in (i'm no medical doctor but i'm pretty sure that could happen and that is a crappy place to have an infection!)
Yes, you're right, but it's not exactly the hardest thing to do. *from what I've heard...clearly I don't have personal experience, being female! ;)
 

huajiro

Well-Known Member
I am circumcised, my son is as well. I don't remember when it was done to me at all, I do remember his. It was a pretty traumatic experience for me, as I saw him bleeding and crying and hurting. He healed up in a couple days and was not affected in any way mentally.

The reason I decided to have my son cirumcised was to make sure that he didn't feel different from me when I potty trained him. Also, I hear that it is much cleaner to be circumcised.

The only downfall to circumcision is less sensitivity (supposedly).
 

Solly

Fides Quærens Intellectum
I was done as a child, at my mothers instigation. She had it done for hygeine reasons, and later facts back this up, as it seems cervical cancer and other problems can be provoked by the uncircumcised male member. I saw a report that said that jewish women had a lower incidence of cervical cancer.
 

Sunstone

De Diablo Del Fora
Premium Member
According to a couple of doctors whose book on male sexuality I read a while back, circumcision destroys nerve endings in the penis and reduces the sensitivity of it by between 20% and 40%.
 

jewscout

Religious Zionist
Sunstone said:
According to a couple of doctors whose book on male sexuality I read a while back, circumcision destroys nerve endings in the penis and reduces the sensitivity of it by between 20% and 40%.
This is true but it doesn't destroy said sensitivity. I can still feel things :D :162:

Once again i think male circumcision isn't the "traumatic mutilation" that many people think it is. It would appear that millions of men have had the procedure w/ few to no side effects.
Like i said earlier if your going to talk about "mutilation" and circumcision then talk about female circumcision.
 

The Voice of Reason

Doctor of Thinkology
Sunstone said:
According to a couple of doctors whose book on male sexuality I read a while back, circumcision destroys nerve endings in the penis and reduces the sensitivity of it by between 20% and 40%.
I had to laugh when I read this. Can you imagine an extra 20% to 40% in stimulation? Hell, my heart wouldn't hold out. I can't even imagine what a teenage male would be like under those circumstances.

TVOR
 

cardero

Citizen Mod
Sunstone writes: According to a couple of doctors whose book on male sexuality I read a while back, circumcision destroys nerve endings in the penis and reduces the sensitivity of it by between 20% and 40%.
Yes but I also heard there were other benefits to circumcision which is why when I was born I had the doctor only remove one side.
 

Jaymes

The cake is a lie
meogi said:
It's not normal, but it is acceptable... mainly because it isn't brutal baby-mutilation.

It is. There is no reason for it at all. It's a quack science of health. If you wash your ding-a-ling more than once a year, it shouldn't get infected. Which is part of why it was common in Europe... they didn't bathe often. Today it is unneeded.

One of the beliefs used to justify circumcision was that the baby didn't feel pain. I think this baby is feeling pain.

If you're feeling especially brave, listen to the sound clip.

jewscout said:
Plus if you choose to not circumcise your son you must teach them how to properly clean themselves because if you don't infection could set in

Yea, you have to teach them how to clean it... it's called BATHING...

If you want to put mutilation and circumcision in the same sentence then talk about FEMALE circumcision.

Which I think is just as horrible. Fortunately, it's outlawed in the US. I don't know why the courts have decided females have rights to their own genitals at birth, but not males.

huajiro said:
The only downfall to circumcision is less sensitivity (supposedly).

Not supposedly. It does. The glans is very sensitive and isn't meant to be exposed to the elements unless it's right about to go into a vagina. The lack of foreskin to protect the glans greatly decreases sensitivity because it adds extra cell layers to protect itself from the pain not being covered by foreskin induces.

If you feel really brave (I literally felt sick and was crying after visiting this site), check out In Memory of the Sexually Mutilated Child.
 

jewscout

Religious Zionist
jensa said:
Which I think is just as horrible. Fortunately, it's outlawed in the US. I don't know why the courts have decided females have rights to their own genitals at birth, but now males.
I can't imagine you think that male circumcision and female circumcision are even the same kinda animal.
Male circumcision doesn't end your ability to have sexual sensations...
Or your ability to reproduce offspring in a healthy manner...
How many men have been unable to have children due to their circumcision?
How many men are unable to have ANY sexual sensation at all due to their circumcision?

Maybe me and my guy friends are the exception to the rule and we have been able to have a viable working member while the rest of the male population can't.

But female circumsision is disgusting, it endangers the health of the woman, practically ends her ability to enjoy sex at all and can be a major obsticle when the issue of childbirth comes up often costing her's and the child's life.
 

Lintu

Active Member
Female genital mutilation is a horrible, horrible thing, and is worse than male circumcision IMHO because of the gravity of its effect on the woman. But, like Jensa, I believe that neither is necessary, so I see both as mutilation. Mutilation is mutilation. We don't say that a particular instance of genocide is okay because it killed fewer people than another particular genocide, so I don't see how one form of mutilation being less harmful than another making the former okay. (But, you have to keep in mind that this is coming from someone with the perspective that unnecessary, nonconsensual cutting = mutilation, and other people have different definitions.).

Oh, and babies ABSOLUTELY feel pain during circumcision. There are a ton of nerve endings in a penis, and they are active during the process of clamping and cutting.
An uncircumcized male baby's foreskin is firmly attached to the glans. In fact, it takes the course of natural erections over months to make the foreskin retractable. So cutting it off is very invasive and painful. Babies often go into a minor state of shock at the end of the procedure.
 

Colin_Admin

Member
the process is done to help keep infection down. i dont see anything wrong with it, plus it adds to the female sensation during sex.
 

Jaymes

The cake is a lie
jewscout said:
I can't imagine you think that male circumcision and female circumcision are even the same kinda animal.

Both deprive a child of the right to their own genitals.

Male circumcision doesn't end your ability to have sexual sensations...

It might as well. The amount of pleasure for an uncircumcised man is far greater than that for a circumcised man.

You know the phrase "(bleep)ed her raw"? That's not just a crude phrase, it shows how a circumcised guy has to try to be able to get an erection, sustain it, and ejaculate. This causes serious sex issues, especially if someone is circumcised late in life.

Or your ability to reproduce offspring in a healthy manner...
How many men have been unable to have children due to their circumcision?

Accident happen during circumcision. It's possible to sever the glans, part of the penis, or even the whole penis. (Warning: this has a picture of a penis. For obvious reasons.)

There's also a case of a boy who got a fever BECAUSE he was circumcised and may have become mentally retarded through that fever. Files of his stay in the hospital during that day have magically disappeared. Read on

And, yes, some do die.

But female circumsision is disgusting, it endangers the health of the woman, practically ends her ability to enjoy sex at all and can be a major obsticle when the issue of childbirth comes up often costing her's and the child's life.

You're confusing female circumcision with female genital mutilation. Female and male circumcision is the same--they both remove what protects a very sensitive organ. In the case of the female, it removes the clitoral hood. Removing the clitoris and sewing the labia shut is female genital mutilation, and something else entirely.
 

Jaymes

The cake is a lie
Colin_Admin said:
the process is done to help keep infection down. i dont see anything wrong with it, plus it adds to the female sensation during sex.

If you teach the child how to wash it, it's not a problem. It was a problem in the middle ages when people bathed once a year, but not now.

And saying that females like cut ones better than uncut isn't true. It's purely a matter of preference.
 

Druidus

Keeper of the Grove
Why not rip off the tip of your tongue as a baby? Sure, it'll hurt for a while, but it won't hurt later. Sure it's completely unnescessary, but so what? Sure, It'll cause reduced tasting abilitiy later on in life, but, what the hell?

The analogy isn't equal, however. Having your foreskin removed is far worse, in my opinion. Of course, female circumsision is worse, but male circumsision is bad as well. Why is it justified that people are allowed to be mutilated (Mutilate: To disfigure by damaging irreparably. Can you regain your foreskin?)?
 

jewscout

Religious Zionist
So i'm just a freak of nature?:jiggy: all my parts seem to operate just fine! :D

I have to agree w/ TVOR if i had any more sensativity down there i don't think i could function lol

I also thought that female circumcision was a process of actually cutting of the clitoris. This was how it was taught to me in Human Sexuality at my college.
 
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