Then your god is a mafia boss, a thug, saying if you don't follow me, I'll break your legs. Fear forces respect. But hat respect isn't honest, the respect is selfish, a means of self preservation. and your god didn't earn it if the only way he can get it is by way of force. That's not benevolent, that is not a force of good, we should replace all the saints with past mob bosses and thugs in society. Because they follow the path of god in the manner in which they operate. violence, torture, death and fear.
"back in the good ole days" the mob never targeted the poor, it was frowned upon, they were charitable to the meek and low class. They took care of those people.
there are two choices;
1. service to self - this is your mob boss, or familialism/tribalism thinking. it's also a slippery slope because when two people with entirely selfish motives meet, then at least one of them has to lose, in order for one to realize their goal.
and
2. service to all as self, or service to other as self. basically the golden rule stated in another way. - this is your universalism, or son of man, thinking
people generally mix them up with percentages of 1 and 2.
the ideal is #2. why? simple, everyone is considered to be no less, and no more, than like self.
those who follow option #1 the majority of the time are headed down a road that is short and filled with adverse reaction. there are no detours for dangerous points along the road , because self created that road with pitfalls, traps, hair pin turns, and drove at their own self-appointed speed.
the road to hell is paved with good intentions and the drivers of that road use others to pave the way.
we hold these truths to be self-evident that all men are created equal and are endowed with certain inalienable rights, maslow called them needs, life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.
enjoy the rat race. love of all is the better way